"when a woman presents a problem to her man, the last thing she wants is a solution"
- chris rock great quote the statement itself obviously conflicts with the logic of many men personally, i think its fine to just listen to a girl talk about her frustrations, to me its cool, it gives me insight into her life and i get to see who she is and what she deals with it only becomes negative when its like the same thing everyday.. then its like.. ok if ur not doing anything to change the situation then why are u even complaining about it? does my pity make u feel better? i really like to hear about what goes on in a person's everyday life but obviously, like with anything, there has to be some sort of balance for example: if your boyfriend ruined your weekend.. i'm down.. go ahead tell me all about it.. i understand he ruined ur weekend but u still love him, he's worth the effort but if you have a new complaint about your boyfriend everyday for three months straight, then you just need to suffer that burden alone.. because at this point, you know what he is about and the pain u are experiencing should now be considered self-inflicted but my main point is, theres 2 sides and i see both of them guy thinks woman wants help, however woman wants validation
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JaimsThese are my blogs from 2009. I started them in May of that year when I couldn't work on music but still needed a way to express myself. Archives
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