so... i just saw an episode of true life where a guy proposed to his girl
now, everyone who knows me probably knows i am against a lot of stereotypical romantic things for example: public displays of affection disgust me i think they are rude and imposing, sorta like a form of visual pollution wedding shows and stuff disgust me because a lot of it to me just isn't real.. it becomes about having an impressive weddingas opposed to what the wedding is really about basically i consider a lot of lovey dovey kissy kissy stuff to be disgusting, in the same way a 5 year old does.. however i have reasons for my aversion to it all.. and on top of that.. IM A GUY (by the way.. before i complete this blog.. let me say this.. if ur reading this and u are going to get married.. DONT INVITE ME.. sounds grinchy don't it? .. meh) anyway.. i just watched this true life where this guy proposed to his girl he was white and she was black he was at her house and all her family was there.. it was like a get together for her family or something and she was the only one with a guest no one knew he was going to propose he saw his opportunity, approaching and so he got nervous, so he went outside to smoke a cigarette he went back in and stood in the middle of everyone he got everyone's attention and talked about how welcome he felt he was like you all have accepted me and made me feel right at home and everything then he focused his attention on his girl and said she is the most beautiful person he knows and all her family was like "awww" lol and then he took a deep breath, got on his knees, pulled out the ring and popped the question she started crying right there and when she got herself together she said yes ok.. why didn't i turn the channel? why wasn't i disgusted by this? i was thinking about it and for one, i felt like.. "wow that guy is strong" for a white guy to be in the midst of all black people and just go for it that's like.. i felt like it took a lot of courage second, i thought about the situation.. it looked genuine to me it wasn't on some seduction type ish.. it wasn't exactly ROMANTIC in the traditional sense.. it was on some "i love this girl and i'm not afraid to put myself out there for her" type ish see, one problem i have with seduction and romance in general sometimes is to me its MANIPULATIVE seduction and romance are often used to manipulate people into giving in to a request.. but this guy didn't take that route.. instead he walked into the terror dome with his head up, his back straight.. into all the critical eyes of her peers, and popped the question now to ME, that was real, and that was sincere and the other thing i liked about it was.. just the environment in general.. it wasn't about fancy places, spending a lot of money, or planned romance, no it was just at her familys house around people that loved her and that's whats important in life u know having things and living lavish is dope but that sort of stuff won't carry a good marriage.. so he didn't need to do some big thing and break the bank cuz that's not what a marriage is based on u know what i'm sayin? its like people plan all these elaborate things to propose to their girl but he did it the best way i've ever seen anyone do it and he did it for free! just wanted to talk about that a bit but anyone who reads this (if ur a chick).. u BETTER NOT be thinking i am gonna have a conversation with u about "awedding story" shows now i just thought that guy had the right intentions, and normally when i see stuff about love, or romance, or weddings, people have all their priorities wrong so it was refreshing thats all peaCe
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JaimsThese are my blogs from 2009. I started them in May of that year when I couldn't work on music but still needed a way to express myself. Archives
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