recently an older woman said some things that were ridiculous to me
she said her in-laws didn't care about her when she explained it she was saying it was because "they didn't accept her" when i asked why, she went on to say they didn't want women to wear pants or makeup and they didn't believe in things like dancing to worldly music, but she didn't agree with those rules the problem i have with this is she doesn't see her own fault in this relationship breakdown she was saying how one day her in-laws were going to do a Christian mission trip or something and they didn't want women to wear pants or makeup etc and instead of just falling in line, and wearing a dress or skirt and leaving the makeup at home, she started asking why she couldn't do those things and saying she feels like she should be able to the problem with this is that you as a person should have a submissive or cooperative bone in your body.. like even if you disagree why don't you have enough humility to just ride with the program for a few hours? also, if you disagree why don't you have enough character to keep quiet until the proper time and place to ask about dress code? (likely behind closed doors) for anyone who may not feel me let me paint this in a different way.. imagine if i was going to a men's church function with a group of guys and they said "we won't be wearing hats at this function" and my immediate response is, "why can't i wear my hat?" "i should be able to wear my hat!" "wearing a hat isn't a sin!" i should have enough decency to just respect the rules and if it bothers me that much i should wait for the proper time and place to bring up this concern, not just be contentious and tell the group "yall rules ain't workin for me" because if i do start saying "yall rules can kick rocks" then i probably won't really be fully accepted, not only because of disagreement, but because of a lack of couth and humility so anyway, as i was listening to this woman act like a victim in the situation this is what i was seeing in my head.. it wasn't that her in-laws didn't like her, or that they were against her, it was that when they tried to include her she had a lot of contention and strife or contrarianism on deck for them that unsubmissive heart was the problem, not the "evil in-laws" like if you can't fall in line enough to inconvenience yourself for a few hours to do something for the Lord then you probably need to grow in maturity i've gone to church many times and been told to take my hat off, i didn't just leave church or kick up dust about the dress code, i would fall in line because not doing so would be both petty and prideful of me the woman's complete lack of accountability to me was mind-boggling this is something i've seen in many women they only view a situation from their own perspective but not the perspective of the other person or the situation itself and what's crazy is, women are typically the first ones to tell you that YOU'RE not considering all of the other situations/scenarios when the opposite is usually true its just like when women say things like "women are sensitive and consider the needs, wants, and feelings of others" but if you try to explain any of the reasons for the men's rights movement or mgtow then she will cover her ears and tell you you're wrong so anyway that was really all i wanted to point out.. and at the end of the day we as men have to realize that since women want to act like children (meaning selfish, self-centered, and not accountable) we have to treat them like children
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