i want to say two quick things just to get them off my chest
1. whenever i look at narcissist videos on youtube and i look at the comments i see a lot of women saying their ex was a narcissist long story short, i just don't buy that very many men are narcissistic women are more selfish and lack the natural honor and integrity that men have so i doubt if all these women were legitimately with narcissistic men also you must consider the fact that narcissism is akin to the jezebel spirit in the bible and jezebel was a woman.. most people you will come across who have the jezebel spirit or narcissism are women men aren't typically going to be narcissistic naturally because we are less selfish, less vindictive, less sneaky, and less manipulative than women also, it just gets hard to believe women put up with narc abuse in a gynocentric society (women can have men thrown in jail, women can post a picture online and have 50 guys ready to replace their man at any moment, women can have the slanted court systems reward them for leaving their spouse, etc) and another thing.. a lot of the stories they post in the comments don't make a lot of sense.. like for example i just ran across a comment where a woman was dissing her "ex narc boyfriend" but she admitted he was married while they were together.. so its like... were you with a narcissistic man or were you just with a married man and now you're upset because he didn't leave his wife for you? i think a lot of these women want to be a victim so bad that they are grasping at anything.. because victimhood is the only thing they can use to explain the problems without facing their own behavior.. it's mirror avoidance 2. you know how people say they have gaydar? i feel like i have developed a cheating radar.. i wish i would've had it when i was in my last relationship because i believe she cheated on me a few times .. but u live and learn i guess anyway.. the thing is.. a big part of it lies in the way a person speaks about cheating i think i have been fairly naive in my life because i don't have sex.. so because of this a lot of things are like taboo to me so sometimes i'll talk to someone and i'll speak very negatively of cheating in conversation... and that person stiffens up or gets quiet or speaks about cheating like it's sometimes warranted to me that's crazy.. as a person who believes sex is for marriage, cheating to me is straight up crazy but so many people i come across seem to have no real qualms about it.. it is actually almost frightening.. people are like desensitized to it and my first question i ask in my mind is "WHY are they desensitized to it?" and i think the reason is because they've done it i remember one time telling a girl i think my ex was cheating and it began sounding like she was making excuses for her.. this was mind boggling to me i just ended up coming away from the conversation feeling like the person i thought would be a confidant was more like an enemy then over time i realized what happened, i was like "OH WAIT!!! she cheated on her husband!" for some reason i never connected the two before once i connected the two i realized she felt like she couldn't say anything.. what's crazy about cheating though is if you cheat on someone you really can't ever point a finger at someone who has done it to you like say you are married for 5 years and then you cheat on your spouse and you two get a divorce.. then you meet someone and you're with them for two years and they cheat on you how mad can you really be? being mad at them is like being mad at yourself.. which i think is why so many people are nonchalant about it when it comes up in conversation anyway.. imo these people are desensitized to the concept of cheating and that says a lot
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