i was thinking about narcissists the other day and i realized this clip from superbad is a good representation of who they are in this clip you can see mclovin was trying to get alcohol even though he is underage and he has dropped some beer on the floor
he doesn't acknowledge that he has done this because making the store clerk feel like he's in the wrong means he doesn't have to deal with any consequences.. by shifting blame, mclovin can escape accountability.. so his self preservation becomes the store clerk's bad day that is how narcissists are.. they have issues but instead of addressing their issues, they proceed to make you feel like you're the issue.. by putting blame on you for things, they are able to escape accountability and blame and they never have to deal with the root of their problems since the root of the issue remains, you (the non-narc) just end up inheriting problems with no actual solutions each time u solve a problem, they move the goalpost and u have another one on your hands because the actual root of the issue is not what they say it is, the true problem is the narcissist's mindset so their self centeredness, their self preservation, and their lack of accountability just turn into a bunch of messes you feel like you have to clean up, and it doesn't end.. its just a big cycle btw if you are in a situation like what i have described, feel free to leave a comment... i am willing to help you through your situation through email or through the phone.. narcissists are truly one of those things where no one understands the situation until they've gone through it, and i've gone through it so if anyone is in a bad situation with a narc feel free to reach out to me
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