my family on my mom's side came from ohio to celebrate thanksgiving this year
one interesting thing was people saying things to me like "women won't like you if you think that way" or "women don't like guys who (insert thing i do here)" or "you will be alone if you..." this year was funny when that stuff came about because it was the first time i was able to look them in the eye and say i don't care what women do, say, or think... and i meant everything i said one of my aunts seemed taken aback by my newfound resolve they can't threaten you with anything if you no longer care lol.. you take your power back.. i don't bend to you, you bend to me, or you don't and you just stay alone period. that is the deal.. its deal or no deal women know inside that men want to make them happy so to control us they tell us how unhappy they will be if we don't comply to their wants and desires well.. what happens when men just say "that's perfectly fine" and mean it? then what? what card do they have in their deck after that? they have nothing, they can go back out into being single and getting screwed by selfish man after selfish man, or they can get with your program but i for one will not bend for a woman's whim, end of story i tried to make my last relationship work with patience and compromise but it just doesn't work.. women don't see these things as love and effort, they see them as weakness.. so i guess women will see just how strong i really am now i'm not going to be threatened.. if you want to leave, leave.. if you want to be with someone else, go right ahead.. whatever it is you want to do outside of comply and submit- go on and do it, because the honest truth is, i win either way
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