one thing i've seen a lot on youtube is where guys try to have discussions about relationships or society or politics but they make the mistake of inviting women to the panel
this is seriously something that has to stop time and time again i have seen this happen and it rarely ever goes well why does it rarely (if ever) go well? its because women constantly derail the conversation.. the thing i've noticed that women do is they just pick at the conversation.. they don't add to the dialogue they just take from it.. you introduce a concept or a theory or hypothesis and all they do is sit back and look for an opportunity to pick at it and they don't even pick at it in a meaningful way, they typically pick at what you say by disagreeing with something that doesn't actually matter in the grand scheme of what you're presenting, or they just sit quietly until they think you say something disparaging about women and they proceed to insert an exception "you're wrong, some women DO like sports.. my aunt goes to every such and such game and blah blah blah" or "women can do construction just as well as men do, we just don't because they don't encourage us to do it in schools" they are always trying to say something contrary that doesn't amount to anything worthwhile.. they derail the conversations nearly every time this is something that truly needs to stop.. we as men must remember women don't always belong in the picture.. just like how sometimes u will say to a child "leave the room, grown folks are talking".. sometimes we need to have that same attitude with women and of course if you dismiss a woman from a place then you may get more backlash than what it's worth but what we CAN do is just not invite them in the first place it just doesn't make sense to invite women to give their baseless opinions anymore.. like we need to just move past that.. i have seen so many men shoot themselves in the foot when they try to invite women to a forum or discussion because not only do they not contribute anything outside of "women's issues" (aka complaining).. they also try to poke holes in legitimate discussion that the men bring to the table.. and not only that- they are more often than not NEEDLESSLY COMBATIVE they come onto shows and forums thinking something like "i have to represent for all women and the best way to do that is to disagree and be difficult" of course they would never say that outloud but it is obvious that that is their inner dialogue.. and it's sad.. it's sad that they think being difficult makes them look smart.. they don't realize it just makes them annoying women just don't have the level of objectivity needed to be of any use in debates and discussions and panels and forums.. women just aren't meant to be opinionated lets face it since when should a follower be opinionated? we have to get back to some sense of gender roles.. and one place to start is youtube.. STOP INVITING WOMEN TO SOUND OFF ON THINGS ALL THE TIME if you're doing a video on fashion tips, or weddings, or cooking, or raising children- then sure, invite a female but if you are trying to have a real discussion about life and far reaching concepts, or a discussion on something mostly male (like sports or video games) then don't invite a woman because whatever she "contributes" will likely be biased and slanted and/or useless and needlessly combative women don't say anything of value when you ask them about video games.. all they ever say is something like "there needs to be more strong women in games" which A. isn't even true because i can name like 10 modern games with female leads off the top of my head.. and B. here they are again monopolizing the conversation and bringing feminism into a discussion about video games when you ask them about politics- again, all they do is try to monopolize the conversation and make it about women and the "wage gap" you ask them about relationships and all they do is try to blame men and exonerate women.. there's no objectivity.. they just speak from a place of emotion you ask them about life and they give you nothing but tired cliches.. they have nothing worthwhile to contribute to the discussion we have to stop inviting them because they ruin our conversations... we can't build the way we are supposed to build when we have women sitting around inserting their nonsense and useless rhetoric.. no one takes their child to work with them, because the child would ultimately be a needless distraction.. similarly, we should not bring women into our male spaces and think tanks i've realized that oftentimes women don't even really understand the underlying purpose of our discussions.. when you hear women say things like "why do you care?" or "why do you keep talking about this?" or "i wouldn't look so deep into it if i were you" then you realize they just aren't built for that type of discourse we have to stop allowing them to have a voice just so they can sit there and try to turn a large important discussion into a tiny nitpick-fest.. we have to just put an end to it because women oftentimes are contrarians for contrarianism's sake.. they think saying the opposite of what you say makes them your equal.. they are looking for validation in the form of an argument basically.. we give them what they want when we dignify their ridiculous thoughts with responses.. and it needs to stop even today i saw it on a video a guy was trying to discuss how being physically unattractive can affect people and the woman had to complain about him using the word "ugly" like he wasn't even referring to anyone specific, he was just saying it to be able to address the topic in a clear fashion, but it upset her awwwww, poor baby can't deal with words that upset her.. awww, so sowwy let me ESCORT YOU OFF THE PREMISES smh come on men we just need to stop inviting women to many of our forums where the idea is to build precept upon precept because women aren't logical enough to handle it and the WORST is when there's a topic about dating or men and women and our differences because women are going to try and turn it into a battle as opposed to a necessary discussion on gender relations if u say anything less than flattering here they come with some huge dissertation.. meanwhile she thinks its ok to say things like "men are pigs" or "women are smarter than men" ..even a concept as common as "women's intuition" is sexist and should no longer be tolerated.. i haven't seen any evidence that women have some otherworldly sense that men don't have... also women's typical "i like bad boys" choice in men seems to point to a complete lack of intuition and foresight as opposed to an abundance of them anyway........ i just wanted to speak on this we as men have to stop giving women the opportunity to stomp on what we build.. verbally or financially or in any other way rethink giving women a voice in your space
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