i saw this on a comment section on youtube.. apparently its from tom leykis
its a list of dont's for men.. it was longer than this but i removed the ones i didn't like i thought these were pretty good though and worth sharing the heading was: rules all men should live by Never do what you don't want to do. Don't ask a women what she wants to do. Never tell a women how much money you make. Never date a single mother. Never answer the phone on the weekend. Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. Never approach a woman who has her girlfriends with her. ok now that i posted them i want to talk quickly about them from my experience Never do what you don't want to do. because doing so actively removes you out of your comfort zone, out of independence/masculinity, and out of the leadership position Don't ask a women what she wants to do. you think you're being polite but women view it as you being "too weak to make a decision" .. ultimately she is wrong and you are right, but why try to explain quantum physics to a child? just accept the fact that this is how she sees it because it makes things easier especially if your girl is young or has disney expectations of what a man is Never tell a women how much money you make. if you do, she will first compare your salary to her own, if she makes more she will lose interest and respect.. if you make more then she will compare your salary to other men's who are within her reach which is most likely of course another bad thing for you.. also she will not respect you for sharing information because women like a man who is "mysterious" so when you freely share information you get placed low on the totem pole.. finally.. she will not think of you as being in the process of working on your career- she will likely look at you for where you are today and put you in a box/category.. this is the same concept behind that old mike jones song "back then they didn't want me, now i'm hot and they all on me" Never date a single mother. if you are a single male with financial freedom and no children then you are needlessly selling yourself short by doing this.. you should use your freedom as leverage to get a woman who doesn't already have children by another man.. you want to be the king of your castle you don't want another man having a say on what goes on in your home and you don't want your woman saying "this is my child" as opposed to our child.. you have the ability to be the coveted TRADITIONAL patriarch/husband, but she is no longer the corresponding traditional woman, so don't waste your time Never answer the phone on the weekend. women devalue men who are "too available" ..the reason for this is because women look at things from the standpoint of social cues and assumptions.. they oftentimes see things through lenses of "weak and strong" "high value low value" "high status low status" they have a limited capacity to see a thing for its intrinsic value to themselves, they see a thing through how society largely sees the thing.. which is why people say women are social creatures.. with that said, being "too available" is another social cue where women will say "he has nothing going on, no one is checking for him so why should i?" Never spend more than 40 bucks on a date. in my opinion you could actually lower that dollar amount.. women don't appreciate effort, they value the interaction itself- so don't go into it thinking effort equals appreciation.. if you do its likely only a matter of time before you end up angry at what you will perceive as a blatant lack of reciprocation Never approach a woman who has her girlfriends with her. this could work if you are high status- because it would trigger the competition and jealousy thing in women... but if you are regular status they are likely to attempt to pick you apart to her when you leave and/or emasculate you to your face when you're there
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