this video goes with the themes of what i talk about on this site.. here you have women fighting over some guy who is ultimately out for self... meanwhile real men who are willing to commit could have had some of these women but they turn those guys down, ultimately choosing style over substance
this is another example of why women shouldn't choose men, instead men should choose women, and even then, that transaction should be between the man and the girl's father.. because women left to their own devices (as the video shows) are liable to turn down good dudes and go straight for hood dudes
i can't believe what fetty said at the end.. that whole speech was the ratchetest commentary ever.. and he said "guys like me have the check"
check for what? so you're tricking now? or does he mean for child support? and i don't understand that from the woman's perspective either.. why do they care about how much a man makes if they know the man won't really be there for them outside of sexual encounters? do they want a loving husband for themselves and a father in the home for their children? or do they just want a baby by the guy with nice clothes and a nice car?
but maybe what he said had some truth to it, no one wants a real relationship or marriage anymore
this guy is on one with this.. this is 100% TRUTH
this was so real its not even funny.. even what he said about them having some type of chronic disease was true.. my ex had HS (hidradenitis suppurativa)
i'm SOOO glad someone spoke on this.. this is something i've seen a lot but i haven't really seen someone talk about it so succinctly.. this guy even gave it a name "womanese"
its so true women literally think we have their same 1 + 1 = 7 train of thought
this topic is so real.. i too realized recently that women are offended by everything... this is why there's "me too" and work environments and colleges are awful to men.. they basically criminalize us and have us prosecuted in the court of public opinion yet according to them we're the aggressors smh
women are offended by us or afraid of us all the time... for example i was talking to a girl on plenty of fish one day (i don't do this anymore) and she was like what are you doing, i was like i'm sitting here in my underwear i just woke up.. she went silent.. so later i finally said "where did you go. did i offend you?" and she said yes, she said she was offended by me saying i was sitting in my underwear.. just that quick she ignored me.. over something that i didn't even think meant anything................... but that's not the worst of it, because think about how this is affecting men day to day at work or at school when women are in positions of power.. think about how this affect's some men's livelihood
i remember one day in college i walked into the career department and the woman told me they were about to close, hoping i would leave.. she later admitted that they wouldn't be closing soon and she didn't seem to realize how offensive that was.. i felt that was offensive to my race and my gender.. i remember another time where a female teacher kicked me out of class for balling up a piece of paper saying i was "too aggressive"
women are afraid of us or offended by us nearly all the time, yet if we try to appease them they treat us like dirt.. this is why women are useless unless they're in proper subjection.. without that they're literally never happy
women think everything we do is wrong, take it from me- a guy who has been looking for jobs nonstop.. u wear nice clothes but your belt is wrong, you say the right things but your inflections are wrong, etc etc they have no patience or tolerance for us, they basically hate us.. they would never admit it but you can see it in their actions
have you ever noticed:
man watches porn and ends up not being able to be aroused by wife
woman bangs multiple guys before marriage and ends up not being able to be satisfied by husband
clearly both of these are the fault of the person who indulged, but society blames both of these on men
a woman can bang the football team and then tell you you're not good enough in bed, as if she had no part in creating an inordinate affection or appetite within herself, physically, mentally, and emotionally
in society's eyes its your fault for not being able to "compete" with the last 20 guys she let defile her
what if i was having sex and i said "your vagina isn't tight like my baby mama's was"
you see how absurd that sounds?
but women do this to us constantly
i have said on my site before that one way to save money is to stop being generous with women because they don't appreciate it anyway.. well i ran across this video today and he echoes that sentiment in his own way
take a look if interested.. i feel his message was solid
ultimately, modern women just don't look at what you do as a sacrifice- they see it as something they are owed.. so instead of growing in love and appreciation toward you, she just gets more demanding and more difficult with time
so stop being so giving, and u might as well stop being so loving and attentive too because she will just use these things against you in the end and when it's all said and done you will ultimately only be able to blame yourself
save yourself the headache.. hold back and use that surplus to uplift yourself
everything you have earned is YOURS TO KEEP.. if modern women want to be independent then let them
like this guy says, you have no idea if she will even stay with you so why waste money taking her on a week vacation? she can easily brag to her friends about how you're taking her out and then dump you a week later without a second thought
so when she suggests going on a trip, just say "i'm not doing that" and if she doesn't like it- tell her to kill herself
these modern women don't care anything about you, they have 20 ex's just like you and there's a 99% chance that number is about to be 21, so don't compromise yourself to keep them happy
when i was with my ex, a lot of times i used to give her gas money when she would come to see me.. i was trying to be the best boyfriend i could be.. i would take her out and pay for everything, i would drive us around.. i never held back.. i did everything within my power to keep her happy and then some.. sometimes i would just offer her money to get something, or i'd bring something to her apartment to eat, i mean i could go on
but the question is, where did all of that get me?
the truth is she treated me like dirt and left me like i never existed
i forgave her so it's water under the bridge but the lessons remain
keep your money and use the surplus to uplift YOURSELF
don't even mildly inconvenience yourself for one of these modern whores of today.. they just aren't worth it
have you ever noticed how much modern women praise men who act like women and women who act like men?
they promote this crap and cheer it on nonstop in everything
gay men are modern women's best friend and biggest sources of entertainment or comedic relief
and women who act like men, or rule over men, or who emasculate men, or who just plain defy good men are modern women's heroes
a guy on youtube asked the question.. "have u lost any friends since you took the red pill?"
i thought that was a good question so i left a comment.. i figured i'd share my answer here too
i'm not posting my whole comment, but here's about half of it
in a sense maybe some people would say i've lost friends after becoming red pilled but in my mind i just feel like i've lost neediness... when the red pill fully digested and went through my system i realized i was trying to hold on to people who really didn't care about me.. even my own sister.. whenever i spoke to my sister i always thought she was keeping me at a distance in her life.. and i even went to her house once and she scolded her kids for "opening the door" ... i'm their uncle so i was offended by this but i didn't say anything... but after the red pill i just don't bother with her anymore.. i don't deal with being treated like i don't belong.. she can do whatever she wants, i don't try to stop her from making bad decisions or anything i just don't care anymore.. its like i've just gotten a new self respect where if i'm not accepted fully then i don't bother
so the red pill imo is great.. i don't feel like i've lost friends i feel that i've lost neediness (which leads to personal compromise) and gained self respect
one minute, they're caping for darker shades and saying they're proud to be black
the next minute they have colored contacts, blonde hair, a nose job, and bleached skin
a lot of this nonsense is a byproduct of women finding themselves unable to keep a man
once they realize they can't keep a man they think they need to change something about their looks.. they think "men must like women who look different from me" or "i must not be pretty enough to keep a man"
i have said before.. if you are able to get dates then YOU ALREADY LOOK GOOD ENOUGH
but if you get dates and can't keep them around THEN YOUR PERSONALITY IS THE PROBLEM
this makes me wonder, why don't women get it?
how many times do we have to say the same things to them?
how many times do we have to say be submissive to your man?
how many times do we have to say show your man respect?
how many times do we have to say stop being promiscuous?
how many times do we have to say stop being argumentative?
like how many times and how many ways do they want us to say these things?
how long will these women need to be on the conveyor belt of new relationships that ultimately go nowhere before they realize the way they act is what is keeping men from committing to them?
how many guys do they need to date before they realize we don't want to put up with their mouth and their crazy irrationality and instability for the rest of our lives
if we men have to sacrifice our sanity and/or manhood to be with you then guess what?
YOU WILL ULTIMATELY BE ALONE!!!!!!
its not always about the color of your eyes or how big your butt is or the shade of your skin!!!!!!
why do women not get this? how many times can we say "don't be contentious?"
how many times do we have to say "feminism is cancer" before they actually hear it and act like real women?
we keep on saying the same things over and over and women just don't hear it
looks are nice, i'm not going to lie about that.. but looks aren't everything
as a woman you have a role to play.. it's called helper.. if you are a hindrance YOU. WILL. BE. ALONE.
i was thinking about something concerning my ex g/f that i wanted to get off my chest
basically it's like this.. one thing i've noticed about women is they will sometimes say they want something, but the reason they want it a lot of times won't be obvious.. it'll be deceptive
one example i've used before is your daughter may say she wants to eat at mcdonald's for dinner, but the truth is she just wants to go there because some guy she likes works there
i just want to talk about a time when i think my ex did this to me
i believe she did this to me when she used to say she didn't want to live in my city "spring hill" because "there's too many white people"
i used to think that was stupid because spring hill is a really nice area, almost every building is new, there's almost no crime, people are friendly, anything you could need is here, there are good schools, no nearby prisons or toxic waste dumps or anything.. there isn't even a traffic problem
so i thought.. who cares if black people are the minority here when its such a nice area?
but here's what i realized:
"there's not enough black people here" actually meant "there aren't enough people here i could potentially replace you with"
we all know how much women like attention, and we know they don't want to be accountable for their actions.. so living in an area with more black men in her mind likely meant "relationship security"
if i said something she didn't like she would have someone she met in a grocery store on standby.. if i told her no when she wanted a yes she could just call up the flirty guy who gave her an oil change the week prior
basically "there's not enough black people in spring hill" really meant "i can't replace you as easily here as i could in a place with more black people" or "i can't talk to other guys as easily here as i could somewhere else"
one crazy thing is my ex g/f chose to live in a more hood type of area and then she kept complaining that someone was breaking into her house and taking dumps in her toilet when she was gone.. one day she said she woke up and the tv was on when she specifically remembered turning it off before she went to sleep
i filed a police report, and she bought an alarm to put on her door, and so you would think she would see this and say "maybe james was right, maybe the safety of the suburban area is more important than the diversity of where i currently live"
but no... why? because if you're a female who is two hours away from where you grew up- which would you choose.. the part of town where you go to the store and get what you want and come back home? or the part of town where you go to the store and 4 or 5 guys compliment you, flirt with you, and ask for your number before you get home?
i believe since all her backup men were technically two hours away, she wanted opportunities to build up more of an archive of standbys and backups here
having men who are legitimately checking for her was like a way to keep the "upperhand" in our relationship.. that is how women keep the status of "the one in the relationship who cares the least" ...having nearby backups was important to her because it's a roundabout way to escape accountability and to always have an out
you wonder why you get in an argument with your girl and she seems unaffected, its because she knows she's going to use it as an opportunity to date someone else
this is how women escape learning and growth
during moments where they should be thinking about how to work with their man, they instead just frolick with a new one
so what do u all think? am i on track here? was it really about diversity or was it about options and opportunity?
so this is just a reminder to all men, to remember to think about your girl's true motives/desires because they can truly be deceptive