i'm just posting this here because this guy said my comment was the goat LOL
props to that guy that was one of the nicest things someone has said to me
Man exposes something crazy a woman does:
woman says: "i can see both sides"
man exposes a male hardship:
woman says: "i can't relate"
i've heard some men say things like "even Godly women will try to destroy you" or "even good women are bad, just to a lesser degree"
i want to put it out there that i don't believe that at all
as much as i have griped about women, i still separate the good ones from the bad ones.. all women aren't bad.. its just that most are
i can also show u in the bible where all women are not bad
"Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life."
so there you see that there are more bad women than good ones... because it says "who can find a virtuous woman?" meaning they are rare
and it also says "the heart of her husband doth safely trust in her" ...that means he has nothing to worry about with her.. so when i hear men saying "you still have to watch out for the good ones" i know they are way off
"she will do him good and not evil all the days of her life"
see, this tells you that there is a woman out there who will do u good for the entire duration of your existence on earth
when men say "female nature is just bad and even the good ones try to trip you up" what they don't realize is that they are actually excusing women's bad behavior because if they can't help it then A. she has no hope of becoming a better woman to you and B. YOU AS A MAN HAVE NO HOPE OF GETTING A BETTER WOMAN
so i always want men to understand that there are some good women... i will admit they definitely are more rare than the bad ones.. but there are some good ones and sometimes we as men should tout that fact...... because the good woman is the bad woman's worst nightmare
as long as the good woman is present somewhere, the bad woman has to rethink her actions
just wanted to put this thought out there
oh and before i go i want to clear up another thing i've heard men say about women that is false
i've heard some men say that women are incapable of loving men
and i've heard some men say that women are not commanded to love their husbands
these are not true
titus chapter 2 verses 1-5
Speak thou the things which become sound doctrine:That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.
The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
this clearly says older women should teach younger women to LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS
meaning women do have the capacity to love us and they are actually supposed to learn how to do it and DO IT
when you say things like "women can't love us" you are in a way making things worse on yourself because you are teaching yourself that you must accept one of two options: 1. deal with their crappy behavior or 2. be alone
but if you are honest and you say "there are some good women even if they are rare" and "women have the capacity to love" then you give yourself a third option which is...........
GET A GOOD WOMAN... (which again, is the bad woman's kryptonite)
one thing i've noticed over time is that women oftentimes give in to their base sexual desires
when i say base i mean like.. they give in to their lower nature and indulge in depravity
the way i've noticed this is when women oblige having sex with the "bad boys" or the guy with no future, or the guy who is in and out of prison, or the guy who has sex with a lot of women but who never has a girlfriend, or the guy who is married, etc etc
i used to think "women like bad boys" but over time this has morphed in my mind a bit and changed into "women are more apt to giving into their lower nature"
a woman having sex with one of these men i've mentioned would be like me talking about how much i like having sex with whores and crazy women or women who are pregnant by other men, or ratchet women with 3 different kids by 3 different men
i could have sex with these types of women and i could keep their numbers in my phone and i could deal with them off and on the way women deal with the men i've mentioned
but the truth is, indulging in these women would be me giving in to a lower nature, it would be me giving in to base desires
i just don't generally allow myself to entertain that type of thing.. don't get me wrong i've watched porn so i've seen whores in action and indulged in that fashion but A. i don't condone watching that and B. i don't want that in my actual life
like i could go out and get a skank or a ratchet woman who runs around bragging about how good her oral skills are etc, but that's just not going to get me anywhere in life
and that is what i've realized many women do
like cardi b said "i like nggas that been in and out of jail"
nicki minaj said "i let him hit it cuz he slang cocaine"
mc lyte wrote "roughneck" where she was saying she wants a "bad boy" from the hood who isn't really big on morals or respectability
these things are not so much "women like bad boys" as much as they are women giving in to their base nature
them saying they like these types of men would be like me saying i want a stripper, or i want a woman who is crazy because the sex will be more exciting, or like me saying i want a woman who already has a man so i can just have sex with her and not deal with her in any other way.... or even if i said i want a woman who is down to abort a child
because just think about how often women say something like: they "want a man who is down to pull a trigger" ... when she says something like that its like saying she wants protection at any cost, even a life... so if a man were to say he wants a woman who is down to abort, it would be like he's saying he wants a woman who is willing to submit to him or "ride for him" at any cost, even a life... and i don't think a man's protection or a woman's submission are wrong, but the "at any cost" part is sinful
anyway.. all i'm saying is ive realized when women say they want these guys who will beat them up or guys who sell drugs or guys who will never commit, they are just telling you that they unabashedly walk in the flesh
its not so much that the bad boy is so great... its that the woman who desires him is dysfunctional if not reprobate in her thinking
i hope i have conveyed this properly
if u are a man and u are tired of coming up short when women compare you to "bad boys" just realize she has issues.. u are fine, u aren't less than or inadequate.. its just that she has issues and she is indulging her lower nature.. u don't do that so u find her desires to be reprehensible which they are
so from now on when u see this, hopefully this is a license for you to not get overly involved in her nonsense..
hopefully now you can just remove yourself out of the equation, don't react to her nonsensical desires.... just stand back and observe
i don't have sex and have never had sex and don't plan on having it unless i get married
however i want to give my opinion on sex in this entry
i have heard a lot of people (mostly men) say that sex with the same person is wack and u need variety because having sex with the same person is boring
i tend to disagree with that
in my mind, i liken sex to a living space
i feel that having sex with your wife is like your sexual version of "home"
no matter where u are u always look forward to going back home really.. u never want to abandon your own home
in my mind, getting tired of having sex with your wife is like getting tired of going home.. its not really likely to happen
just like all of your things are at home, all of your memories and experiences are with your wife
this is my opinion on it.. i don't think sex would get boring i feel that it would feel like a necessary recharge.. just like how when u go home after work or after being away for a long time, being back home helps to give u a necessary recharge, i think its the same with having your wife
this notion that having sex with a woman long term is "boring" to me is not legit
but again, this is coming from someone who doesn't have sex sooooo yeah
i finally beat the game iconoclasts (ps4 version).. if i remember correct i bought it back in january, but i put it down for a while
anyway i picked it back up, and in the end it took me 20 hours and 40 minutes to beat
this game was great
this game is an action platformer with a lot of puzzles
robin is an excellent main character.. one of my favorite main characters i've come across in a game
so far this and the evil within 1 are my top favorite games of this generation
i don't know what to say really.. this game is just really good.. i would say this game probably has the best boss fights of any game i've ever played
another notable thing about this game is i feel like the second playthrough seems like it'll be a lot of fun since you will know how to quickly go through the more puzzling sections.. now don't get me wrong i enjoy how brainy this game is, but being able to push through in a more action oriented way seems fun also
really good game definitely worth the price
i ran across this picture today and i decided i should make an entry about it
so here's what i want to say:
1. this picture represents what is wrong with women today
i told a female like 3 weeks ago that my problem with women today is the fact that they don't want to do their gender roles.. i also said the reason for this is because feminism has permeated society and it has infected women with its toxic ideology
i said to her "women are worse than men today because feminism has told them to not be good to men for the last 45 years"
feminism has succeeded in brainwashing the average woman to think that being good to a man is a negative thing
it has succeeded in making women feel that raising a child is not as rewarding as going into the workplace to compete with your own husband
she of course said i was wrong
well.. this picture is evidence that i was right.. this is a feminist picture and it is telling women to not be good to men.. its telling women outright to not give men what they want which is exactly what i said feminism does
2. one of the main problems with this picture is this... if you can't be used, you're useless
so here we have women saying "we won't do this, we won't do that, we won't do anything you want" etc..
and this is why we see things like MGTOW today
IF YOU CANNOT BE USED, YOU ARE USELESS
men are seeing that women no longer want to do their part and so these men are literally jumping ship on women altogether
what good is a car that doesn't drive?
what good is a female who rejects living up to female gender roles?
this is how stupid women are, they think they can stop being good women and somehow it will benefit them LOL.. i mean look at this picture "we don't have to be feminine" .. it might as well say we are childless dykes in training
"we don't have to have sex with you" .. ok so you essentially want to deprive men SO BAD that you are willing to deprive yourself in the process.. like what part of the game is that?
anyway, even the bible has a way of saying "if you can't be used, you're useless"
of course the context is different but the principle is the same.. if you are meant to do something you should be willing to do that thing, or else you become useless
anyway.. i just had to speak on that picture
that picture is a perfect example of why it may seem like i have a bone to pick with modern women
they justify being bad women and they wonder why it doesn't work out for them
why do they want to do everything except for what they are supposed to do?
biblically, women are meant to be men's help
women were literally made for us, not the other way around (1st corinthians 11:8-9)
so yeah i just wanted to speak on this.. the picture represents a mindset.. this mindset ruins women.. it makes it so that men don't want to really pursue meaningful relationships with them because instead of being a help to us, they dedicate themselves to being a hindrance
its not like i made the picture myself.. this is really feminism, its really what has permeated society, and its really the ideology of many modern women today... i mean this is not me woman-bashing or anything this is the reality of why dating is crap, and why good marriages are nearly extinct.. its why pump and dump, netflix and chill, friends with benefits, and situationships rule male/female relations today
because women just refuse to do their part today.. we have told them for years their attitudes are wrong, we have told them for years they don't properly respect us, we have told them for years that feminism is cancer... so like birdman said, "i ain't got no mo talkin"
its a wrap... we have tried and they have refused
so let them rot