i want to talk about one thing my ex used to do that i will never put up with again
that thing is she used to threaten to leave me she would make little comments about how i can be replaced or other guys want her or she'll leave me and i'll just be alone etc etc i remember one time she said she would leave me and i would just be back to my life or something and she sat there and laughed about it.. the laughing part was really what hurt in that instance, because i didn't even understand why a person would get pleasure out of that she also made comments sometimes about how she wanted me to get her pregnant so she could have our baby and leave me and raise it alone.. of course these were "jokes" but who jokes like that? (quick sidenote: referring to the pregnancy thing.. no we didn't have sex, i believe sex is for marriage) anyway.. here's what i came here to say i will NEVER EVER, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE EVER deal with a woman telling me she will leave me EVER AGAIN what i learned is they use that as like a "do what i say" button or a "u should be afraid" button or an "i can threaten you" button since i don't operate that way, i was unfamiliar with that- i didn't know it was just another trick in a woman's myriad of manipulations i believe when it comes to certain things, oftentimes it takes one to know one.. it takes a thief to spot a thief.. it takes a liar to spot a liar.. with women, they are able to see through a woman's manipulation clearly because they tend to operate on that same wavelength as for me though.. since i don't walk around trying to manipulate people, i never saw any of that stuff coming but over time you realize you're just dealing with a scumbag so once you realize- "ok she doesn't even mean what she says, she's just saying this to appear unaffected or to turn the tables" you see what your actual course of action should be today if a woman told me she would leave me she better be prepared to actually leave because i refuse to be threatened or henpecked by a useless skank and YES she is useless because if she is telling you she is going to leave you then she is essentially telling you: "YOU'RE NOT WORTH FIGHTING FOR" so she is useless to you because she will use that belief as an excuse or justification to treat you however she wants (aka like crap) a woman better not EVER say she's going to leave me because i will show that skank the door IMMEDIATELY and i live on the second floor so she better hope she doesn't fall down the stairs when i throw her belongings at her on the way out i hope some man will read this and learn from me on this if a woman makes any type of comment about leaving you (even in an argument) tell her you're all about making wishes come true and CUT HER OFF be flat, cold, and stoic why? because women, thrive on attention meaning even when the attention is negative they thrive so in their pea brains that means giving you grief and headaches can actually be better to them than just leaving you alone or allowing you to have peace so you have to cut off their source.. meaning revoke all attention from them.. but the key is to MEAN IT.. meaning you can't revoke attention and come back later.. just revoke it and forget she exists like FOR REAL, like FROM THE HEART this is for two reasons 1. self preservation and 2. to show that dumb skank she can't treat you any way she feels like treating you the truth is you really do deserve better.. how do i know? because i did. when i was in that relationship i was a good boyfriend, i was loving, caring, attentive, giving, patient, everything a parent would want for their daughter, i embodied that.. but not one bit of it was appreciated.. i deserved better and if you're a man reading this and relating to what i'm saying then the truth is you deserve better too.. and i'm not saying that like some cliche, i mean from OBJECTIVE REALITY, you deserve better than a woman who doesn't properly reciprocate, no matter how good she looks hopefully what i've said helps some guy and sheds light on some situations anyway.. like i said- i will never deal with that again i don't care if you have the roundest booty and the biggest boobs and the prettiest face i don't care at all about any of that because guess what? none of that matters if you don't treat me with respect i really mean every word i'm saying here from the heart.. if a woman threatens to leave me she better hope we're not on the interstate done.
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