i want to say this as quickly as possible
one thing that irks me about women is how they act like they have it all together or they act like they are perfect in all areas of their life because what that amounts to is it appears as though they don't have need or use for anything a man can offer let me try to illustrate this ok so sometimes a female will come to my apartment and look in the fridge or look in the cabinets and she'll look back at me and say "wow you're really a bachelor" what they mean when they say that is "your fridge looks like you haven't had a home cooked meal in a while" or "you're missing dishes you need if you want to cook certain things" or in more general terms "you could use a little help and i am good in this area" when women see how "bachelorish" i am.. they seem to like that.. they like the idea that they have an open door into my life.. they see they can easily come in and fill a role if we were to move forward but when you reverse it- this is something that is absolutely missing in modern women.. they don't have an "open lane" for men, because they see it as a vulnerability- but the issue is men want to fill a woman's void so men are attracted to a woman's vulnerability, not repulsed by it the way women seem to think women today want you to think they have no need of you and no use for you and they don't see how that looks uninviting to us men they're like: "i have my own money" "i have my own house" "i have an education" "i have a security system and a dog" "i have a big family and a ton of friends" "i have hobbies and get togethers" "i have kids already" women have even gotten to where they say they can carry heavy things by themselves smh.. it has gotten to where women's "independence" has become totally insulting to men.. its totally like... i don't want to use the word emasculating because i don't believe this is an issue for one gender... i believe this is just a common sense issue.. whether male or female, you should allow a person to play some type of role in your life.... for example: how would a woman feel if she had a baby and as she was going to feed the child, her husband was like "oh you don't need to breastfeed, i've already made arragements for that" ... THATS HOW YOU WOMEN SOUND THESE DAYS.. its like modern women don't even want men to do their own gender roles you modern women have closed every door where a man wants to pour into your life and then you expect the man to want to stay... HE FEELS USELESS HE FEELS LIKE YOU DONT NEED HIM, WANT HIM, OR CARE ABOUT HIM HE WANTS TO CONTRIBUTE.. HE WANTS TO POUR INTO YOUR LIFE HOW IS THIS NOT COMMON SENSE TO YOU MODERN WOMEN!!!????? LEAVE ROOM FOR A MAN TO BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE.. STOP ACTING LIKE YOU HAVE EVERYTHING ALREADY IF HE HONESTLY CAN'T ADD TO YOUR LIFE THEN YOU NEED TO JUST BE SINGLE it is just very unattractive and uninviting when women do this.. if you are a woman reading this... you really should think about trying to leave room for a man to offer something to your world the same way you women want to be needed by your children is the same way men want to be needed by their women so stop acting like you don't need a man or anything he has to offer because it is honestly one of the absolute most ugly and disgusting things about modern women remember in old movies where women used to be damsels in distress? i'm not going to explain it for you- just marinate on that STOP ACTING LIKE EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE IS PERFECT.. i'm not saying throw yourself under the bus but be honest about the fact that there are some things a man can help you with and be honest about the fact that there are some experiences you would like to have with a man men look at most "imperfections" or "voids" in your life as opportunities where he can help you... not as areas to diss you
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