i want to explain what it means when women say they have nothing in common with you
i've had women say to me that we have nothing in common before and i've always thought it was somewhat of a weird statement because what do men and women really have in common? we like rap, they like r&b we like video games, they like weddings we like talking about things going on in society, they like talking about how their baby is going to look or something i mean seriously if you're looking for a friend you may want to have things in common but if you're looking for a wife you really just want someone who fits that role.. having things in common is not really important for example.. one time i was watching divorce court and the judge asked the couple why they wanted a divorce and they said they don't like the same music part of the reason why that's ridiculous is because it's just not really that important.. love and commitment should trump the radio station you listen to on the way to walmart if it was all about having things in common then men and women would be the same just with different genitals.. but we aren't.. we are totally different so... with all that said.. what does it mean when women tell you that you two don't have anything in common? why do they harp on that? what exactly are they talking about? males and females haven't had things in common since the age of 5 so why is she bringing this up like its a real thing? from experience.. let me tell you what it means it typically just means you two are unequally yoked for anyone who doesn't know.. a yoke is the thing you use to attach two oxen together so they can plow the field so when she says you two have nothing in common she is typically saying she can perceive a difference in how you two operate in my experience it typically means she is not a really good person and she can see that you have morals and integrity and that turns her off you don't drink you don't smoke you won't fornicate with her you're marriage minded but she is used to guys who just want sex you want to go to church, she doesn't you are trying to become more righteous, she still enjoys iniquity she cusses, you don't you obey your conscience, she disobeys hers and laughs about it you're humble, she's full of pride she views her pride as strength and views your humility as weakness you let things go, she's vindictive she is basically perceiving these types of things and telling you outright "this isn't going to work out between us" here's your perspective as a man.. A. you haven't seen the depth of her depravity since everyone is on their best behavior during the first two to four months of a relationship.. you know she has done some bad things but you have overlooked them because she made herself look like it was her past as opposed to her present let me tell u right now... IT'S HER PRESENT... and this is why she is saying you have nothing in common because she knows when broken down to the most basic level- you're good, she's bad, and she's looking for a way out B. here's your other perspective.. the things you've seen in her life that are unbecoming are things you have decided to help her work on.. you think you can help bring her up to a higher level of operating and decision making.. but here's the thing.. she doesn't want to grow or mature, or come up to a higher level... instead of seeing your attempts to bring her up as helpful- she views them as attempts to control her saying "we have nothing in common" to you as a man means something like "we don't like the same music" or "we don't have the same hobbies" or "we have different friends" but what she is saying is "we are unequally yoked" "we think differently" "we operate differently" "i can't tell you how i really think and feel because you will perceive it as crazy, but to me its not crazy, it's just where i am" in other words men.. when u hear this- it's likely time for you to cut her loose think about it like this.. u may have a friend who is on drugs right.. u may set up plans for them to go to rehab and you may work on their resume so they can get back in the workforce, you may acquire them a vehicle so they can be a normal functioning adult again instead of being hooked on a drug............. but if they don't want those things you can't help them if you find a woman who doesn't want to come up to your level then just let her go because she ultimately won't appreciate anything you do, and she will misinterpret most of your actions "we have nothing in common" means "we are operating on different playing fields" women know having things in common isn't important.. or else they wouldn't go for the "alpha male" thug type who basically lives his life the exact opposite of the way they themselves live.. so they aren't talking about things like hobbies and interests.. they are talking about APPROACH TO LIFE so men, my advice if i were to give any is this.. keep your eyes open, and don't waste your time on the wrong women.. you are better off single and at peace than you are with a gorgeous moron done.
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