i was thinking about women and why they like "bad boys" and i was also thinking about bad boys and why they appear to prosper and a few scriptures came to mind (note i took out verse 15 and 16 here, as they weren't as relevant as the rest for what i'm saying)
12 Behold, these are the ungodly, who prosper in the world; they increase in riches. 13 Verily I have cleansed my heart in vain, and washed my hands in innocency. 14 For all the day long have I been plagued, and chastened every morning. 17 Until I went into the sanctuary of God; then understood I their end. 18 Surely thou didst set them in slippery places: thou castedst them down into destruction. 19 How are they brought into desolation, as in a moment! they are utterly consumed with terrors. 20 As a dream when one awaketh; so, O Lord, when thou awakest, thou shalt despise their image. 21 Thus my heart was grieved, and I was pricked in my reins. 22 So foolish was I, and ignorant ok so in here david says the ungodly people go unpunished and they are getting richer.. he is saying "wow i'm doing right but it doesn't profit me" then he goes on to basically say God allowed him to get a glimpse of their end and it was so bad that he instantly felt dumb for even thinking the wicked prosper at all before i continue with what i want to say i want to share another scripture "Wherein in time past ye walked according to the course of this world, according to the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that now worketh in the children of disobedience" this^ is found in ephesians what it's saying is basically that some people live according to the way of the world, and they do what the enemy wants them to do so basically here's what i want to say i have realized the reason why women like bad boys and the reason why bad boys prosper is because they are following the course of this world think about it like this.. these men do wrong and it pays off for them.. what does that remind you of? in what other arena do you see people rewarded for doing wrong? the one that immediately comes to mind for me is stealing people who steal do wrong and receive a reward for it, in the form of their stolen spoils.. so what i'm saying is.. these men who ravish these women are operating by the evil world system.. anytime you do wrong and are rewarded for it, you are operating in the world's system of wickedness and folly.. and just like a person who steals and profits from stealing.. these men are doing wrong by not honoring marriage and they are receiving the spoils of such behavior (a woman's time, attention, deference, and sex) no believer should envy these people because david says their end is terrible.. they will be brought into desolation and utterly consumed with terrors in a moment.. in my opinion, "in a moment" means they won't have a clue as to what's about to happen when it happens and there will likely be no escape to back up this idea let me use another scripture.. this time from hebrews: Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. this scripture is basically saying sex in the context of marriage is fine but outside of marriage it is wrong and those who do these things will be judged... and one thing to note is this.. this scripture is actually extra scary because it doesn't say "will be judged" it makes it a point to say "God will judge" ...meaning, He will handle you Himself up close and personal..... meaning He takes marriage seriously and if we take pleasure in violating it and don't repent and turn away from that then the forecast doesn't look too good for us (to put it EXTREMELY lightly) so now let me continue sometimes i look around and i get irritated when i see bad guys (meaning guys who just want sex) prospering with women.. they just come through and netflix and chill, or do the friends with benefits, or they have the no strings attached situationship thing going on and what happens is these guys are having sex with all the women and ruining them.. they are half the reason these women are not wife material.. the other half of the reason is the women themselves so i see these things and i get irritated, but when i think about all these scriptures i've shared.. my mind changes a bit i don't get as upset when i know there is an expiration date for all of this world's nonsense you all have to understand i want a wife and time and time again, i see a woman doesn't want me because she doesn't like good dudes, or she overlooks me because she just had sex with her "friend" the night before, or she just takes my kindness for weakness, or she likes to be treated badly and craves the drama, or whatever.. what i'm saying is i just feel like their minds are warped (again, they walk according to the course of this world) there is just nearly NO wife material for a man who wants to love a woman and hold her in high regard, and it is at times very bothersome to me i mean i've literally heard women say they have sex with bad guys and just let good guys take them on dates i've literally heard single women with kids say "no guy has ever taken me out before" ..smh if no guy has taken you out how/why do you have kids? i've heard women say "guys wanted to make sure i wasn't a virgin before having sex with me so they knew i wouldn't get attached" ..which just means she has sex not only outside of marriage but also outside of ANY type of relationship.. i mean its even worse than prostitution because women today don't even get anything out of it and in many cases the women are the breadwinners to these men! these women are giving these men rides places, or letting these men drive their cars, these women are giving these men money, these women are doing job applications for these men, etc.. there is no exchange they just give themselves to these men who blatantly use them.. if i say: "i don't want you to get attached to me" i am also saying "I DONT CARE FOR YOU" so how/why is that rewarded with sexual intercourse? ..someone says i don't care for you and so you respond by giving them your most intimate parts but women don't even care, they think this type of setup is exciting and fun and that's apparently what matters to them.. it doesn't matter that they are aging and childless and without proper support or love or committment, they just give themselves to these men.. meanwhile i'm over here with a lot of genuine love to give a woman but i can't find a woman who is worth her salt like this is what this world is... its full of women who reward bad behavior from men and punish good behavior from men they say there's what's called an 80/20 rule which means 80% of the women are having sex with 20% of the men stats like those don't sound too good for a man looking for a wife out of this bunch but when you look at it from a spiritual standpoint.. you can see that they are just on the enemy's team they play for the dark side think about it.. this is EXACTLY what the enemy wants it seems like most of the pretty women are useless whores.. and when i say that.. i am not saying it in a derogatory way.. i mean like they are useless because they are not wife material they are no good to a man (and women's first job according to the bible is to be useful to a man.. the bible calls women a "suitable helper").. and they are whores because they are literally giving themselves to their chosen "buddy" all the time and all these whoremonger men who are there for women's sexual pleasure all have multiple women and pay for abortions and they also ruin relationships.. both potential and current, by facilitating fornication and infidelity when u look at our society spiritually you can just see the enemy has our society where he wants it in many ways... if you were the enemy wouldn't you want to take all the pretty women and make them whores? wouldn't you want all the good guys who are willing to marry to be without suitable wives? wouldn't you want men who are over 6ft tall with 6 pack abs to be whoremongers? the reason i point out looks is because looks in our society tends to represent value and influence of course the enemy wants all those people who are highly valued and naturally influential to be working for himself... its the same with money, of course the enemy wants the greediest and most arrogant people to have money.. while he wants saints and believers who refuse to step on people to get to the top to be broke.. and i'm not saying this is what it is across the board in our society.. but i'm saying a lot of what we are seeing today- if you look at it spiritually, you can see it's what the enemy wants God's way would be like- all women have one husband and all men have one wife.. this would promote committment, family, stability, and also it would maximize everyone's chances of being married and having a loving wife or husband however in this climate you have men like me who want to be husbands but who can't get a woman out of the vise grips that are these continual fornication-filled "friend" or "buddy" relationships anyway.. my main point was that what we are seeing today if you look at it spiritually- it's looking like exactly what the enemy wants and so here are the takeaways 1. what we are seeing today is a spiritual problem.. people are yielding their bodies to do the work of the enemy 2. there is no need to envy these people because if they continue in their ways they will surely meet a bitter end 3. since this is a spiritual problem we men should deal with it spiritually instead of naturally.. so what i mean is.. overlook natural circumstance and situation and instead operate in faith.. meaning even if you haven't seen a good woman in 5 yrs.. put your faith in God that He can bring you a good woman remember shadrach, meshak, and abednego if ye worship not, ye shall be cast the same hour into the midst of a burning fiery furnace; and who is that God that shall deliver you out of my hands? 16Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, answered and said to the king, O Nebuchadnezzar, we are not careful to answer thee in this matter. 17If it be so, our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of thine hand, O king. 18But if not, be it known unto thee, O king, that we will not serve thy gods, nor worship the golden image which thou hast set up. they saw the circumstance and the situation.. they were full aware they could be thrown in the fire but they said "Our God is able to deliver us" so men, let's attack this problem spiritually also.. we see the circumstances, we see the situation, we see the whores, we see the whoremongers, we see the feminism, we see the disrespect, we see the "i don't need a man," we see the fornication, we see the abortions, we see the cheating, we see the lies and deceit but let's take heart.. let's take refuge in our mighty God above and let's defiantly say: "Despite what it looks like, my God is able to give me a good wife.. and if He doesn't, i still will not take part in this world's backwards and perverted system." let's take comfort in God's ability, if He gives us a wife, great- if He doesn't then He didn't see fit, but the fact is HE IS ABLE.. because He is the same God who delivered shadrach, meshach, and abednego from the blazing furnace they were thrown into.. let's rest and take refuge in that fact so with or without a good woman by our sides... men, let us stand tall and walk forward with purpose! THE FACT IS WE ARE ON THE RIGHT TEAM AND NO MATTER WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE, VICTORY IS OURS!!!!!
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