i have been thinking about women lately and the way they act i feel that women are a little weird in that they seem to innately take kindness for weakness how can you be nice to someone who takes kindness for weakness? if a person takes kindness for weakness, they also by default take kindness for granted is this women's way of saying "don't give me too much importance in your life" ? is this why women also commonly mistake a man's interest as "thirstiness" ? are women saying with their actions "don't hold me in high regard" ? with their actions- women say: "don't be nice to me" "don't show interest in me" "if i act up leave me immediately" "don't be too available to me" (aka ignore me sometimes) "make me compete with other women" etc to a man this sounds like a woman is saying "treat me like crap" but to a woman this probably sounds like a "challenge" or "i can't control him so it turns me on" despite the fact that i feel this is a backwards way of doing things- i figure why get upset when in reality, what turns women on is actually more beneficial to me because i can disrespect and disregard them and still get their best i can literally get a woman's best through my own pure self interest and this is also what we generally see.. women giving up their time, attention, affection, and bodies over to men for pump and dumps, no strings attached, and friends with benefits while the men who want to take women on dates are given the run around i was thinking about this also in the context of saved women vs unsaved women do women who keep God first also want to be treated this way? do true women of God take kindness for weakness? or is that primarily left to those who are still in the world? i'd say saved women make FAR more sense than the unsaved ones if u find a real and genuine christian woman u probably won't be confused by everything she does the same way you are with women in the world and with a saved woman, i imagine selflessness would get you further than selfishness but a genuine christian woman is (at least in my experience up to this point) EXTREMELY RARE so i guess if you want a woman's time and attention the best way to get it is to just be selfish and........ well this song explains it
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