first off i want to start this off by saying i'm not a race based person.. i am not saying this to bash black females this is just something i have noticed recently.. i have done entries on white people, black males, as well as asian people so i don't want anyone to think i am bashing with this
i have recently seen that black women in general seem to have a lot of pride i think a lot of this comes from culture.. i guess black women are largely a group of people who apparently saw the women in their family have more power and autonomy than men couple that with the culture that is marketed to them through music and media (the attitude thing and the diva thing) and i suppose what u get is a woman who is prideful in her identity i saw a statistic somewhere that said black females get college degrees more than any other group in the united states i think the same thing that propels them to strive for education is likely the same thing that keeps them in pride.. they want to appear as either "as good as" or "better than" ... this in some ways can be seen as a positive if you are trying to make a decent living for yourself however if a woman aims this same thought process at the men in her life- there will likely be a problem time and time again i've seen black females with a massive amount of pride one black female said to me that she couldn't talk to anyone without a bachelor's degree.. she was like "if you don't have at least a bachelor's degree you probably can't keep up with what i'm saying" imo that was massive pride.. especially since at the time i was still in undergrad a lot of times they feel like they don't need to listen to anyone.. i told my ex g/f she needed to stop acting like tupac with her "me against the world" mentality the problem with a woman with a prideful mentality is she won't apologize, she won't ask for help, she won't receive help, she won't forgive, she won't be protected, her guard is always up, etc a man will try to say something to her that's real, and she will just take it as an insult and spit out something disparaging i think ultimately when u look at black women the issue with them is largely just pride.. they bring the same pride they have from taking care of their children and being independent into their relationships and it is repulsive to men i've also noticed on occasion some black women respect white guys more than they do black guys.. i heard one black woman say she doesn't argue with white men but she does with black men.. i called her on it and she laughed as if i was jealous.. i wasn't jealous i just thought that was ignorant how would i sound saying "yeah i respect white women but not black ones" ?? like i just thought it was a stupid thing to say.. like i said i'm not a race based person so what i am saying is not to bash black women- this is just something i have seen recently i feel that black women may possibly be the only ones who generally feel they are above their men its like sometimes i feel as though they see a black man and their first thought is "i don't have to respect him" this is not all black women but this is something i've seen in many of them what do u all think? do u think i am correct in saying these things or do u think i'm way off?
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