this is just me thinking outloud.. so skip if u want
have u ever sat down and tried to make a plan? the weird thing about making a plan is that as soon as you sit down to make your plan its like your plan is done in 5 seconds and the plan then becomes a task like say you have a plan to get a specific job well if the job requires a certain degree then your plan will say "go to school for such and such degree" and then you do that for like the next 4 years that's what's so weird about plans its like your plan takes all of 5 seconds to figure out and then you may find yourself working on it for the next 5 yrs u might not even feel like you're accomplishing anything unless you make a lot of little plans along the way with that said.. i guess we should make long term as well as short term plans that way we have overarching purpose as well as little wins and little encouraging things along the way when i sat down to write this entry i was thinking "why am i going to even bother writing this?" however now i actually feel motivated to do better on short term plans as i type this i feel like wow.. i think this is something that's been missing from my life i feel that i've been pretty good with long term stuff because as a man- that tends to be how we think and approach things.. we think about things from a foundational standpoint.. we think ahead, we think solid foundation.. we think long term (come to think of it.. the other day i stated my goals for 2018 and all of them were long term) generally, its like.. a man will build a house and a woman will furnish it so with all that said, maybe i could benefit from making smaller plans sometimes instead of just the big foundational ones.. right now maybe doing more short term intentional plans will help me and come to think of it.. this might help me with an issue i noticed recently which was.. when i was in my last relationship i noticed i had a lot of energy.. but i've had some struggles with motivation since it ended i think women naturally energize men.. when i was in that relationship i had so much energy even with all the crap i was dealing with from her deep down having a beautiful woman did something to me.. like it flicked a switch or something... and yeah i was stressed and everything as things got worse between us.. but somewhere along the way i noticed there's some innate thing where like... having a beautiful woman seems to bring a new type of resilience to a man not having a beautiful woman sort of like... i don't know its like air seeps out of your balloon so to speak.. but the use of small goals may help me to regain some of that i remember back in 2013 or 14 i started keeping little journals with me to help me sort out my thoughts.. i can probably start keeping those on me again for the sake of mini plans and things ok well that's all i wanted to bring out u all take it easy and u should prob get your long term and short term plans poppin also
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