so i just wanted to put this out there.. its something that happened when i was with my ex
so when i was with her one day she got a new job and i took her to lunch after i took her to lunch i asked for a kiss on the cheek and she said no, then i persisted like "come one babe" and she did it then when she got home she text me and said "why don't you check on me when i get home?" this really irked me because i was thinking about how i never got a thank you for taking her to lunch and i barely could get a kiss on the cheek without a struggle.. so i said "why are you quicker to complain than you are to say thank you?" it wasn't so much the lack of a thank you- it was more of the fact that she was recognizing what i DIDNT do (call to make sure shes ok), but not what i DID do (congratulate her and take her to lunch) so this caused a situation where saying thank you was always like a "thing" to her after that.. like she would always act like it was this huge chore that i was forcing her to do she just never wanted to say thank you for things and she made that abundantly clear to me but here's where it gets weird i ended up getting in contact with an old friend named sondra.. i hadn't talked to her in like 3yrs and hadn't physically seen her face to face in like 20yrs now understand.. i made sondra a song back in 2005 this is the crazy part.. while i practically had to pull teeth to get my g/f to say thank you to me.. sondra was STILL thanking me for that song i made for her in 2005... i made the freaking song 12yrs ago keep in mind, she has thanked me for the song seemingly every time we caught up in the past.. but it was surprising that here we were in 2017 and she was STILL thanking me for the song.. and she wasn't just saying thanks for that song.. she was like really telling me it made her feel good and boosted her spirits and meant a lot.. and she was telling me when she would listen to it and what she liked about the lyrics and everything... and guess what? THE SONG IS WACK!!! the song is wack but she still sees the intent behind it and thanks me.. 12yrs after i made it!!!!! so just imagine how i felt, realizing my girlfriend refused to thank me for anything, but this old friend i got in contact with was thanking me and making me feel like i made a real impact in her life even though what i did for her was 12yrs ago that was a real trip to me i never told my ex any of this.. she has no idea any of this happened it just really opened my eyes i guess so the lesson is- always try to give ur spouse what they want cuz someone else might come along and provide it
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