i want to point out something that i've noticed about narcissists, jezebels, prideful people, evil people, etc one thing i've noticed about a lot of people with selfish personality disorders is a lot of them tend to have a belief that deceiving someone is equivalent to being smarter than them this is a belief that is void of personal integrity let me give a quick example say you are walking down the street and a homeless looking person comes up and gives you a sob story and you give him $5 now say that person really isn't homeless and makes good money and has a car parked up the street he has an opportunity then to have two different beliefs: 1. i am a scumbag for lying to people and taking their spare money for my own benefit 2. i am smarter than all these idiots who give me money because they are too stupid to realize i'm lying to them narcissists, jezebels, prideful people, and people who just aren't good in general will all take on that 2nd belief they don't have integrity.. they don't have a place that says "ok i'll fess up" or "ok let me be honest" or anything what i'm trying to say is.. a deceptive person thinks they are intelligent when they are really just a liar or scumbag if you are void of personal accountability and integrity then what happens is you don't view a situation as right and wrong you view it as smart and dumb.. this is also why a lot of these people take offense to things that aren't actually offensive.. because that is how they view the world and life and relationships.. they have to have the upperhand or they have to try and "one up" everyone around themselves they have a very self-centered outlook on life this doesn't just go for lies and deception it also goes for other negative things like take stealing for example.. a lot of people who steal things say things like "that woman was stupid for leaving her purse there" or "i outsmarted walmart's security" etc or even take fornication or adultery for example.. they will say "i got sex because my game is A1" they aren't looking at it from a right/wrong standpoint.. its a pride standpoint.. "i'm smart, i got something i wasn't supposed to have.. so that must mean i'm great" i think a lot of people are fooled by this sort of thing... me personally though.. i think integrity, humility, and right/wrong are higher virtues i think instead of saying "i figured out how to scam this person and got over on them because i'm smart" a person should say "i saw how they could be scammed so i covered the breach in security to protect their assets" what just came to mind here was in the bible where some of noah's children had a different reaction to his nakedness (which i think represents his foolishness) And Noah began to be an husbandman, and he planted a vineyard: 21 And he drank of the wine, and was drunken; and he was uncovered within his tent. 22 And Ham, the father of Canaan, saw the nakedness of his father, and told his two brethren without. 23 And Shem and Japheth took a garment, and laid it upon both their shoulders, and went backward, and covered the nakedness of their father; and their faces were backward, and they saw not their father's nakedness. 24 And Noah awoke from his wine, and knew what his younger son had done unto him. 25 And he said, Cursed be Canaan; a servant of servants shall he be unto his brethren. 26 And he said, Blessed be the Lord God of Shem; and Canaan shall be his servant. 27 God shall enlarge Japheth, and he shall dwell in the tents of Shem; and Canaan shall be his servant. are you going to take advantage of people and diss them and puff yourself up with pride? or are you going to see where you could take advantage of someone and say "this person is a child of God and i'm not going to use their vulnerability against them" narcissists and jezebels and all those types of people will use your vulnerability against you and they won't feel bad.. you won't get an apology when it's all said and done because in their mind, they just "outsmarted" you.. nevermind they lied, they stole, they deceived, they cheated.. in their mind they didn't do you wrong, they bested you.. this is why when you expect an apology from these people they act offended or aloof.. because to them its like you're trying to take their "win" away these types of people will only apologize as a last resort and even then they don't mean it- they only do it to get some type of mercy when they are completely exposed and subjected to punishment the other day someone told me about a woman who cheats on her husband the woman had hickies and instead of saying "ok i'm caught" she said "i'll just tell my husband its a skin problem, he's a dummy" in that you can see she has replaced right and wrong with smart and stupid..... this thought process absolves these people of any sense of accounability.. it is utterly void of integrity so keep your eyes open.. if you see a person who operates this way... steer clear "successfully" lying, deceiving, cheating, or stealing is not a form of intelligence.. it's sin.. satan was the first sinner and look where he ended up update 3.10.18 i ran across this video which echoes what i've said here in some ways
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