in this text i wasn't talking to my ex g/f, i was talking to my friend devon basically my ex g/f told me i was a selfish controlling narcissist so many times that i began to lose grip on reality
over time, after looking online.. i came to realize this is a tactic that many crazy people use against other people by crazy i mean like borderlines, narcissists, women with the jezebel spirit, and more the tactic is called psychological projection and what it is is.... they project their own personal issues and demons and struggles onto you so when a person talks in circles they tell u that you talk in circles when a person is self centered, they tell you you're selfish when a person is a narcissist, they tell you you're a narcissist i used to think they were defense mechanisms until i ran across a phd online who said these are not defenses, they are offenses, used to destabilize the you and usurp your power and confuse you they are not actually defense mechanisms, because the person actively wants to take control of either the interaction or you yourself.. so this is an active and aggressive thing they do to you.. a defense is something u do as a reaction.. but these people will do this to you unprovoked her projection legit had me losing my mind and considering things i had never considered before "am i a selfish controlling narcissist who always plays the victim?" they were all her own issues she was projecting onto me
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