One thing I want to point out is I had a conversation with my mom about how I cut women off when they don’t live up to my standards
She said something about "well get used to being alone" I was like "cool cuz I’d rather have peace" so we apparently see the same phenomena here, however we appear to have different outlooks on it The thing I refer to us seeing is that the fact that my standards tend to keep some women out of my life.. it either runs them off or I step away from them myself here’s where we have a disconnect: She appears to think my standards are a problem and I need to just allow women to come in my life and do and say whatever because “it’s a new day” or because “it’s not the 50s” or “its modern times now” However, I believe the problem is not my standards, my belief is the problem is the women who do not live up to my standards.. they think they can just come in my life and do whatever they want.. they think I should change when that is backwards women want a man to lead.. how am i the leader if you don’t follow me? if you don’t mold to me- and instead I mold to you, then which one of us is the leader? these women want to be the man in the relationship.. they want to be the strong one while I am the flexible one, but that is not what nature intends i've seen this thing for a while now in society where women want to be the boss everywhere except in the bedroom but let me tell you something.. a woman who is only submissive during sex is also a woman who is only good for sex when you see a woman.. whether its someone at work or a family member or whoever- and she seems to always be sexually active but she never has a real relationship or never gets married.. there is a reason for that it's likely because she doesn’t know her place.. a woman only has value to a man in the areas where she is willing to be submissive.. this is why pump and dumps, no strings attached situationships, and friends with benefits are such huge things today.. because women today are largely only submissive in bed, and (again) therefore only good for sex.. there will not be a meaningful relationship if women don’t abide in their proper place with that said- my standards aren’t the issue, women who aren’t in position are the problem anyway, my mom and i see the same situation, my standards keep women away.. I think having standards is good she thinks it's bad but check it out.. I can legit say to anyone reading this: I have legitimately NEVER placed too high of a standard on a woman.. I can legitimately say that for the most part if a woman has been willing to work with me I have been willing to work with her -Is not smoking too high of a standard? -Is not having two kids by two diff men out of wedlock too high of a standard? -Is being honest too high of a standard? -Is being fathful too high of a standard? -Is being respectful to me too high of a standard? even physically my standards aren't too high because i like bbws, so women don't even have to hit the gym for me to be interested I have never placed women in a position to where they just can’t reach my standards.. the problem is not my standards, the problem is that women are no longer women and they don’t want to be who they are supposed to be anymore -She doesn’t want to be honest (yet she wants me to be) -She doesn’t want to be submissive (yet she wants me to be loving) -She doesn’t want to take my last name (yet she wants a ring) -She doesn’t want to stop rolling her eyes at me (yet she wants me to overlook her past…meaning she doesn’t want to respect me as a man but she wants me to respect her as a woman) -She doesn’t want to go to my church (yet she wants me to lead) Twilight zone logic the problem is not my standards, the problem is women are just not up to par so let me bring it back to you... which of us has the right outlook in your opinion.. me or my mom? imagine me abandoning my standards.. what do you think i'd end up with?
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