i didn't write this, i got it off a forum called boxden
peep if u wish.. i thought it was a good read What do women want? .... man give me a minute because these creatures want the entire world b. Preference for Good Financial Prospects Too keep this as simple as possible, men cannot be broke motherfuckers and expect to have a long term mate that isn't bat-shit crazy. Book quote: "Women in 1939 valued good financial prospects in a mate about twice as highly as men did, a finding that was replicated in 1956 and again in 1967 (Buss et al. 2001)." Preference for High Social Status Women want a mate that are in control or have the potential to control what is around him. How is this related to social status? Social status is a universal cue to who's in control of resources. High status provides more territory, better food, healthcare, and benefits for their children. Preference for Somewhat Older Men Book quote: "The age of a man also provides an important clue to his access to resources... In all thirty-seven cultures included in the international study on mate selection, women preferred older men. Averaged over all cultures, women prefer men who are roughly three-and-a-half years older." Why old men? Well, women expect a man's age to be directly proportional to his income. If there's something off with that math equation, you she's already one foot out of the door if not gone completely. Preference for Ambition and Industriousness I think I'll let the book speak on this: "How do people get ahead in everyday life? Among all the tactics, sheer hard work proves to be one of the best predictors of past and anticipated income and promotions. Those who say they work hard and whose spouses agree that they work hard achieve higher levels of education, status, and higher annual salaries, and anticipate greater salaries and promotions than those who failed to work hard. Industrious and ambitious men secure a higher occupational status than lazy, unmotivated men (Jencks, 1979; Kyl-Heku & Buss, 1996; Lund et al., 2007; Willerman, 1979). U.S. women seem to be aware of this connection, because they indicate a desire for men who show the characteristics linked with getting ahead." Preference for Dependability and Stability Men that are emotionally and financially inconsistent are considered to be a cost or a burden for a woman, something she wishes to avoid altogether. Women do not prefer men that are self-centered and monopolizing of resources, possessive and have bouts of jealousy. Preference for Height and Athletic Prowess Women want a tall and athletic man that is capable of protecting them and their children if the need arose. Fat and lazy men? You might want to get in shape. Short men? You may want to learn how to be a financial wizard, and look like it. Tall guys get the cream of the crop. NBA players can virtually have anyone (no matter how ugly we think they are). Preference for Good Health: Symmetry and Masculinity Women have evolved to prefer men that have symmetrical faces. Similar to what men want from women as well. Evidence suggests this is a way to determine if a potential mate has healthy genes, lowering the risks of birthing a defective child. Women prefer a masculine looking face as well. Long and broad jaws, stronger brow ridges, and more pronounced cheekbones. This is a feature of men with high levels of testosterone. Love and Commitment Women prefer men that will make them feel exclusive (duh). Giving birth to a child is a tactic to ensure exclusivity to some degree. Preference for Willingness to Invest in Children Women find men that ignore or brush off children ("in distress") to be highly unattractive. Preference for Similarity Women want emotional bonding, cooperation, communication, mating happiness. All of those things lower the risk of breaking up, and increase the likelihood of their (potential) children's well-being. Additional Mate Preferences Include: Kindness, Humor, Incest Avoidance, and Voice Women love a funny man that is kind to others, but most importantly.... they have to have a deep voice. Men without a deep voice to women is like a woman that's bald and has a physique like shaq to men. Book quote: "Hypothesis for why a deep male voice is attractive are that it signals (1) sexual maturity, (2) a larger body size, (3) good genetic quality, (4) dominance, or (5) all of the above." To sum all of that shit up? Women don't care about if a man is "pretty" or not. They care about their height, socioeconomic status, physical build, personality, nature, and I already mentioned money right? Can't be stingy with it. This pretty much explains why Beyonce prefers camels over regular men.
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