in this entry i want to talk about all the reasons why my fashion/presentation is not great
what made me want to write this is my mom is always telling me i should dress better or wear my clothes in a more professional way or something ok here is the number one reason why this has not really been possible for me 1. I HAVE NOT HAD MONEY FOR NEW CLOTHES LIKE THAT when i say i haven't really had money for new clothes, i mean.. back when i used to live with my parents and work at caremark rx.. i used to buy one to three pieces of clothing every week.. i kid you not.. every single week i got one to three things but back then i wasn't exactly breaking the bank with my "rent" payments.. i paid my parents but they weren't just charging me a ton of money i have not had a lot of extra money in my newer life where i have my own place, drive 30 minutes to work, drive 30 minutes back home, pay for internet, water, electricity, etc etc i sometimes trip about women because they all say the main thing they want a man to be is independent, and have a plan for his life.. but then they turn around and diss that same guy for not having a great wardrobe or the best personal presentation.. why don't women understand that men were never meant to do things on their own? like to me its obvious.. if i am a man who has 70 to 80% of what a successful family needs, then a woman must come and bring her 20 or 30% to help complete the circle but women don't even want to help contribute that much.. they don't see an independent guy who is doing his best and say "this guy has the house, i just need to help furnish it" (figuratively) .. women don't see a guy who is about his business and say "this guy has held his own in life, let me be the last piece for him" no.. women look at us guys and they say "he is not 100% on his own.. f*ck him" like they want you to be independent, they want you to have your own place, your own car, a great career.. they want you to be educated, they want you to have 6 pack abs, and they want you to have nice car and an incredible wardrobe.. but they want him to have all of this by himself.. they don't want to contribute to any of it.. they don't want to help boost his self esteem, they don't want to make him a meal, they don't want to help him get clothes, they don't want to take on some of his errands so he can spend more time in the gym.. no they just want everything to be finished- they want everything with no investment over and over women say the most important thing is for a man to be independent.. ok so once a man achieves this, and gets his life together.. do you treat him any better? do you show him any kind of respect or anything? no, you then say "his shoes are old" or "he can't dress" ITS NOT THAT HE CANT DRESS, ITS THAT HIS PRIMARY CONCERNS ARE FOUNDATIONAL more often than not, if he doesn't have a huge surplus, he will do without like for example, i like video games but i only bought like 2 games last year i have not had a wardrobe stipend or whatever.. my clothes are old and they don't fit because i put on weight in the last 5 yrs and look like a light skin version of carl winslow which brings me to the number two reason my swag is not on point my weight.. i put on weight.. my ideal weight was reached when i was like 24 or 25.. well i'm 31 now and i need a breast reduction i have a lot of clothes that i look ridiculous in because of my stomach.. like shirts where everything fits but when you look at the stomach area, it looks like the buttons are about to pop off this is something i need to work on more.. but again.. i feel like if i had a woman in my life who could help me save time- i could spend more time working out.. but women don't think along those lines.. all day they will say they want to meet a man who can help them pay down their student loans.. but they never seem to think about things they can contribute but overall i feel like all my excuses for why i don't go to the gym more often are just that- excuses.. its just something i need to make a habit of.. anything that is habitual is made simple.. i made a habit of coffee.. so there is no reason i can't make a habit of proper exercise reason number 3 right now i am sick.. its hard to look cool when you are coughing up phlegm some woman at my job made me sick with her smoker's breath and i am just not in tip top shape.. even down to my posture reason 4 i have so few clothes that they wear out fairly quickly a lot of my clothes i had to get from my dad because my clothes get holes and things since i'm sometimes wearing things multiple times a week i'm also missing some important things like a coat for example overall.. what i'm saying is i don't want to hear about how bad i look when i feel like i am working really well with the things i have i feel like i am doing what i am supposed to do in life right now.. and if the Lord give me surplus then i will stunt and have designer clothes and a nice car.. but right now i am just doing what i am supposed to be doing and i have what i am supposed to have.. if i'm cool with that- other peeps should be too i am appreciating and adding to what i have, and that is what matters.. the significance of what i have on right now is a fleeting thing
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