i think i've overestimated my dating market value.. not recently, i mean back when i was still dating
this is an interesting thing i was thinking about ok so in looking at things women want i realize i am still fairly far off from a comfortable mark 1. one of the main things (probably #1 considering how women truly operate) i am missing is being in shape i am not in shape at all and i feel like this is something that cannot be overlooked.. i just have to work on it until i get back to a good place 2. another thing i realized was a year ago i had no furniture i personally didn't really take note of the fact that i had no furniture.. it didn't bother me personally because i was just doing what i needed to do and figuring it would come however now that i actually have furniture, i can see how absurd i may have seemed to anyone who came to my house when i had nothing 3. another thing i feel that i didn't have about a year ago was goals/vision i was working a lame job and i didn't really have a plan in place for what was coming next now i feel like i have plans and goals and things and i can see how they help me in my day to day life the bible says where there is no vision, the people perish.. and i am not sure if i am using that in the correct context here.. but i feel like goals and visions give you purpose and help u to move to a destination.. but if u don't have them then u kinda go nowhere so now that i have personal goals and things- i look back to when i was dating and i can see this was another area i was lacking in (btw i will likely share my goals and plans in future entries) and what's weird is i kinda wonder if it took me ditching dating to come to this higher way of living.. because it really feels like a trade off like the more i've let go of women, the more i've been able to concern myself with my own issues so i look back to about a year ago and i feel like i was overestimating my value with women.. this was likely a large part of my frustration btw.. out of the three things i listed.. i'd say #1 and #3 affect a man's confidence as well so in checking both of those 'off the list' over time, i imagine i would also be checking off the everpresent 'confidence' box as well... at least in part if not fully
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Kevin bentley
3/31/2016 02:39:59 pm
Yeah I get where you're coming from but most girls should understand that you got to start from somewhere even if it's an apartment with one piece of furniture everyone has been there unless they have Rich parents who bought them everything so most young people including girls start out the same way or have physical things that they would like to change about themselves so any girl that looks down on that is it idiot
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pooL boi
3/31/2016 03:47:20 pm
i def feel what ur sayin here brah..
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