this girl at my job had some girl's facebook page pulled up on her phone and was asking this guy if he thought the girl was pretty
i walked over and i was like "let me see her" so she showed me and while i was looking at the girl on her phone.. the guy was like "who is that anyway?" and she was like "that's my boyfriend's ex-girlfriend" so then i was like "you look better than her" and i handed the phone back i wasn't trying to play into her thing, i was just being honest.. which was why i didn't give her the hi-five she invited me to so then the next day she walked up to me at my desk and started talking to me.. this never happens which was why i noticed it and after we talked a little she walked over to some girl i talk to a lot and was like "why don't you help james find a girlfriend?.. we need to find james a girlfriend" its like i became visible or something.. but i'm not sure why she was so insecure in the first place.. i mean.. her guy must have put her in her place or something because to even be comparing yourself to someone's ex in the first place seems almost desperate i thought deeper about it and i thought about a lot of things i know about her 1. she wants to have a baby 2. she lives with her boyfriend 3. he hasn't/won't propose 4. she has a background in the church when you put all these together- it appears to me that although she is in a relationship, she likely feels insecure about it.. she is probably thinking "i want a baby but not without a ring" "i don't know how to get him to propose" "what we are doing is not what i was raised to do" "i'm getting older" (she's 27) do you guys think i am accurate in my assumption that these are likely the reasons why she is meddling so hard? i know its not really an important subject but i feel like each time i think through something concerning women i gain a little more understanding in this case- what i feel i am learning is: why/how a pretty woman can still be insecure +++++++++++++++ i want to talk about two more quick things with women ok here's the first one i don't want to go on anymore dates with women only to find out later that they smoke cigarettes i feel like that should be something you say at some point within the first or (at the latest) second conversation ok we all have faults or flaws or whatever but if you smoke then you need to be upfront not only do i dislike the smell and the health effects, but smoking also says something about your personality.. it says "i can't cope" it also says "i lack self control" and those are not disses, its just my honest opinion ++++++++++++++++ last thing: women need to sometimes think about the things they want in a man recently i had a conversation with a girl and it was odd to me i was talking to her about seattle and i said "i love everything about the city except for the gay pride stuff they have every year" then she went into that whole dogmatic thing people do these days, the whole: "are you homophobic?" thing this was dumb on multiple levels 1. she said she was a Christian, so if she is a Christian then she should just agree that both "gay" AND "pride" are both negative things in the eyes of God 2. she had just got done (not long prior to that conversation) telling me about how she can't stand 'down low brothers' so on one hand you say you can't stand down low brothers meaning guys who are gay or guys who even think about being gay on the low.. but at the same time you want to question me about my stance on not liking gay pride and transvestites and gender confusion and all that PICK A SIDE do you want a real man? or do you want a politically correct guy who agrees with whatever society says is good? like make up your mind i responded to her "i guess if you want to call me homophobic you can.. but i am not afraid of homosexuals, i'm just not into homosexuality or perversion.. that is not something i agree with" she didn't really say anything back so i think she got the picture you women need to understand you're not going to have it both ways with men if you meet a guy who is like "yeah i love the gay pride parades but i'm not gay" guess what? THAT GUY IS F*CKING GAY
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