this post is not a diss to this girl.. i just thought it was worth a post because it was a moment of unbridled honesty which i appreciate in this world of fronters i suggest stopping the video after she is done talking because the guy after her has some lame commentary.. so pretend the video stops after 6:30 and just click stop also.. try not to read what i say below until you have heard what she has to say so many things to touch on here 1. college really has become like a 'rite of passage' these days for many people.. i mean it is deeply lodged in many peoples' subconscious.. everyday somewhere in the back of their mind their brain tells them they are valueless without college.. lol.. this is not the case- you still have value without college.. now if u are broke and you feel you need to go to college to create an opportunity then that's fine, but college doesn't hold your value as a human being 2. why is there this idea that college is actually FUN? LMAO people really think listening to boring teachers is fun? people think going into debt is fun? people think living in a small dorm room with another person is fun? people think doing homework is fun? now.. in her case i kinda understand.. you know.. kinda like the grass always looks greener.. she is in a situation where college seems like a missed opportunity.. and i understand that but this whole notion that it is fun (especially if you just got out of high school) is just wrong.. honestly without the prospects of sex and alcohol and parties and drug experimentation- college is nothing more than extended high school you're still broke, you're still not respected, its not this great exodus that some people seem to think it is.. i mean college isn't even like the commercials so you should damn well know its not like the movies 3. why the balls doesn't she sign up for online classes? i can see she is due at any minute so she doesn't want to be walking around campus but you can still do online.. and what's crazy is they make accommodations for women who are pregnant.. i remember one chick at school was pregnant and she got to work ahead so she worked ahead 3 to 5 weeks.. no one else had the ability to do that.. i find it to be kinda stupid in a sense.. like are we following rules or not? but that's what they do, they make exceptions for people.. i wish i could've worked ahead because it would've given me incentive like "hey once i finish this bs i can play video games for the last 5 weeks" but whatever i'm not complaining i'm just saying.. like the college is still there, you can still go... WHICH BRINGS ME TO ANOTHER POINT 4. is she lamenting the fact that she can't go back to college right now? or is she lamenting the fact that she can't go and "be the pretty girl" and "turn up" and "go to the front of the line" and "have fun" and "21st birthday (can drink legally)" etc when you really look at it- it seems like she is not really mourning COLLEGE so much as she is mourning her lost value as that young pretty girl who gets to be on instagram with her boobs out, or on facebook saying how fun her life is, or at the club getting hit on by thirsty men, etc because COLLEGE ITSELF is still on the table.. you can still take out a loan and go.. but what's not on the table anymore is that same lifestyle you had before you got pregnant 5. i think she will be straight.. i don't know when this video was recorded but the fact that she was being real shows me she will be fine.. deliverance starts with an honest testimony.. what does the Bible say? something like "profess your sins one to another that ye may be healed" so she doesn't know it but her honesty and transparency are leading her to full restoration 6. women need to keep their legs closed.. its like 40% of what i say here on my website.. and when i say this i don't need any women trying to redirect me and say "what about the men?" the bottom line is you are the gatekeeper.. there is ALWAYS going to be a man who wants to smash you, that is why you are in the driver's seat.. that is why it is up to you to have discretion and set parameters.. get married, don't become a baby mama or someone who is chronically single with no kids, or someone who has an std stop banging these dudes, lol i'm telling you- shoot for marriage first.. find a man who fears God.. this girl said it best, ask him where is the ring at? YES SOME MEN WILL WALK AWAY BUT THAT IS YOUR LITMUS TEST THAT HE JUST FAILED 7. love her honesty.. if more people would speak like her- our youth wouldn't be misguided!!!!!
0 Comments
Leave a Reply. |
Beautiful things
a nonstop rush Archives
December 2015
|