i wanted to do an update on something i said in an entry i did on 1/11/2015
you can go back and read the whole thing, or just read the part i want to talk about.. here's the part i want to talk about entry from 1/11/2015 about 2 months ago- this girl at my job was having sex with a guy for a while until she found out he was married, and so her heart broke and she started missing work and stopped trying to look decent and everything.. then about a week ago she met another guy and when i asked her what she's doing over the weekend- she said she is staying at his house overnight do u peeps think she is headed for the same thing she just came out of? my guess is "yes" .. i even told her that the things this new guy has been telling her sound like game to me like "yeah baby let me wash your car" and "yeah i'm wanting to settle down" yeah right smh.. not hating on the guy but men know what to say to get a woman's trust u know i will try to do an update on it so u guys can see what i see so here i am today to give you all the update on this.. ok so right around the same time she met this guy, she asked me if i was going to have sex with this girl i was seeing.. i told her i don't have sex and i told her i believe its for marriage so when i said this it seemed like it got the wheels turning in her head.. she didn't laugh at me or call me a cornball she literally said "i think i need to do that" ... so this time she held back she is used to just having sex with guys quickly for whatever reason.. but i think the combination of 3 things made her want to stop 1. having her heart ripped out of her anal cavity by the married guy 2. me saying i don't have sex (i think i got her to consider it as an option because she kinda likes or respects me anyway) 3. she wanted to make it work with this new guy so that was at the top of January or so from then up until now she has declined sex and the guy has been nice to her the entire time every day he has been on his good-behavior type ish, like texting her at work each day, expressing interest, being affectionate, coming by to see her, etc well she caved recently (about a week ago) and they had sex for the first time together so i asked her today about her "boo" and she said "he's not my boo" i was like what? why? she said "as soon as we had sex everything changed" she said he's not showing interest like he was, he's not doing the same things he was doing before the sex she was like everything was going so well but now its like he has lost interest or things are just different, he's not there for me like he was so there's the update i know u guys probably thought i wouldn't update that situation but i didn't forget ! anyway.. if anyone wants my opinion my opinion is that women should keep their legs closed.. i look at women like music if an album can only be heard via cd or itunes (meaning by purchase).. people will either buy it or they will pass it by but if an album is available by cd, itunes, AND via free download... then some will buy it to show support, some will pass it by.... but MOST will get it via free download this is the issue i see with women.. they are the gatekeepers charged with setting the value/price of their "goodies"... yet they are making it freely available which means yes.. some women may be bought.. a man may marry a woman who gave it to him freely.. but most of the time they are just going to get that free download version and not make a "purchase" they will not give a relationship, companionship, marriage, ring, love, affection.. SIMPLY BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE TO u guys agree or disagree? any thoughts? just wanted to share and follow up on that girl's situation anyway peaCe peeps
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