i want to talk about one of the stupidest things i ever saw on plenty of fish .com back when i was on it
one day i ran across a girl's profile and she said something like this:
"my best friend is on the site too and sometimes a guy will hit up both of our pages.. if u do that i won't talk to u"
that is not a direct quote.. it is paraphrased .. but the jist of it was.. you should not be on her page and her friend's page
that was very dumb to me.. the problem i have with it was the assumption that a man should only be attracted to one woman at a time
also, i remember her being very picky in her profile, so that further creates incentive for a man to look for multiple women at one time because he knows his chances of actually getting and/or keeping your attention are very low
so i remember being flabbergasted at how she simultaneously pushed men to seek other women yet punished them for it as well
i wish i had that profile to show u guys because the thing is i see women do this a lot..
why do people think you should only be attracted to them!? if i'm not married to you- you better believe i am talking to other women.. its not a malicious thing, its just for my own sanity
women are so fickle that talking to one at a time is like a recipe for disaster.. u can't put all your eggs in one basket with women.. that's honestly rule number one in the rule book
women will ruin your whole life with their corny antics.. the main antidote to their shenanigans is to have other women on deck.. that way u can always bounce back
so that is one of my main pet peeves.. when there is no relationship yet women still think you should be exclusive to them.. that is very controlling and weird
woman: "i saw you talk to that other woman"
guy: "yeah SO WHAT"
woman: "i'm not interested anymore"
guy: "good thing i got the other girl's number then huh"
a woman's ability to withdraw her interest for any reason in the world is the exact reason why men have to talk to multiple women.. why don't women understand that
and another thing.. women are stupid to think men should be both confident and exclusive right out the gate.. think about it.. approaching a woman, having all your eggs in one basket- and being on her chopping block does not lend itself to confidence
think about it like this.. who will be more confident, someone who needs a job and has 10 interviews lined up, or someone who needs a job and only has one prospect?
so let's recap a woman's request:
a. approach with confidence
b. only have eyes for me
c. when i reject you, put your tail between your legs and walk off quietly
so women don't want a balance of power and autonomy in an interaction, instead they just want all the power? why do they want to literally have men by the balls like that? again, that is weird and oppressive.. if one party has all the power then there will be no ebb and flow.. need i explain further? no ebb and flow = no meaningful relationship
women who hold a man's desire for a woman against him are stupid and short-sighted
you don't get exclusivity out the gate.. YOU EARN IT