so i was on boxden again and someone posted this video.. note: this video is DIRTY.. no nakedness but a lot of "mature" things going on DONT WATCH IT IF IT IF THAT WILL BUG YOU.. just want to give fair warning now.. if you've seen the whole thing or at least to the part where he is talking to women with his cell phone i want to ask a few questions
ok supposing that footage was real, my question is- IS THIS WHAT WOMEN WANT? like is that what a man has to be to get a woman? i am not dissing this guy at all- i am genuinely asking this question.. is this seriously what women want from men? this is what i take from this guy.. these are the things he has: muscles, jewelry, good hair style, fast talker, a guy with some jokes, a guy who isn't beating around the bush now.. i am not dissing him for any of this at all.. but i guess from my perspective as a self-proclaimed "square" (i say i'm a square because i found this video to be completely astonishing) i feel like maybe i have given women too much credit? maybe i feel like women want a guy who listens to them, takes them out, asks them normal things like "how was your day," etc. but this video shows me that women don't care about any of that.. so the song was right then? "girls just want to have fun" ?? are women really like this? they really just want to bang the buffest guy they can find with no strings attached? they like giving their bodies away quickly because it is "exciting" to them? they like arguing with men about where they've been because they like the unpredictability? do women like being lied to? i mean i know there's that song "love the way you lie" but i guess i thought those words were hyperbolic.. until seeing this video do women really not care for- or want sincerity? does confidence trump an honest heart? and what is confidence to a woman exactly? to a woman, does this man exemplify masculine confidence? these are honest questions i have after seeing this video because again- if that footage was real, my mind is blown real talk.. i would appreciate any comments on this video.. do you guys think i have given women too much credit? is thinking women want a relationship a false assumption? women are always saying they don't want friends with benefits, they are always saying they want a possible relationship.. is that all a lie? what should a person assume? how do women want to be treated? don't give me those cliche answers, i want to know the honest truth how does a man appeal to a woman? does the approach change based on whether she is ratchet or religious? what pieces of the puzzle am i missing? should i just quit asking questions and get a clean cut, hit the gym, and rock some ice? as far as women are concerned- is there any difference between a man wanting a girl for sex and a man wanting a girl for long term relationship and possible committment? which one sounds better to a woman's ears? are these answers dependent upon something i can alter, change, or manipulate? and am i seriously doing EVERYTHING wrong when it comes to women? i may not know everything, but let me answer that last one before anyone else: YES
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