pua's are pick-up artists
pick up artists are men who have learned the art of getting women into their lives this is something many people don't know about.. the whole pua culture.. however many men are instructed and taught by it i have no issues with the pua communities however i do sort of question a lot of them.. my issue with a lot of the greatest pua's is many of them are not married sometimes i ask myself what their knowledge is leading to is it sex? is it marriage? or is it up to the man? i am not 100% sure i also do not know the theories behind some of the actions.. such as.. if you are able to obtain sex from a woman, does that mean you can then get her to comply? like "where the body goes the mind follows" ? or is it more.. "where the mind goes, the body follows" ? i feel that is a decent question to ask because the answer would show us men what we should seek to obtain in order to get what we want from women i do not criticize the pua community because they provide a great service to men.. as knowledge is power.. i also do not claim to know the answers at all but i do sometimes feel that if we are seeking sex, that is a sort of second-rate experience.. if it is not accompanied with love and commitment i say this because i have been offered sex many times in my life.. i feel that sex is fairly easy to come by.. however i have only once in my life had a woman who was willing to marry me, love me, stay with me, and commit to me.. so i feel that- that should be the ultimate goal, because it is harder to achieve, it is more rare and valuable to have a woman commit to loving and supporting me as a man than it is to have a woman spread her legs to me i can buy a woman dinner and have sex with her.. or i can even get a woman to drive to my house to have sex with me but to find a woman who is truly willing to be in my corner, for sex, support, affection, love, patience, kindness, and continued assistance, and help through ups and downs.. that is what is valuable so when i see these unmarried pua's.. sometimes i feel that they are not actually successful again- you would be hard pressed to find a man who has not been offered sex so are unmarried pua's teaching us to reach for one piece of a much bigger puzzle? this is just something that has crossed my mind again i withold any judgment.. just a thought
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