one issue i have with women is how they a lot of times give very ridiculous advice
one thing i've noticed, is if you were to ask a woman how to get girlfriend, oftentimes they will say something like: "have confidence" or "be confident" its like they don't understand confidence is a byproduct of preparation, effort, understanding, and possibly the successful execution of some type of plan women don't ever tell you how to get to the root of the issue you're dealing with.. think about it.. there's more to it than "have confidence" because there are certain things some women don't want.. for example: there is no point in having confidence if you are an ex-con who didn't graduate high school who is unemployed who doesn't have a car who lives with his parents.. see what i'm saying? what does confidence matter if you have nothing going for yourself? "have confidence" no longer matters in such a scenario.. because what are you going to do? tell a woman you can't afford to take her out WITH CONFIDENCE? i'd actually argue that confidence doesn't really matter AT ALL considering women will not want you based on your lack of autonomy.. and they WILL want you based on your extreme level of autonomy.. all of this is without regard to this elusive thing called "confidence" look, its not like u just wake up and have the confidence of a young CEO.. no.. you take the steps to become that young CEO and the confidence comes over time saying something like "be confident" or "have confidence" is like telling someone who is broke to "have money" what is confidence without some kind of substance to back it up? confidence is literally like a woman's answer to everything.. -scenario 1- son: "dad what should i do if he wants to beat me up again?" dad: "he's bigger than you so we've established we're not playing fair, so fill your backpack up with rocks and...." son thinking: * i'm ready * -scenario 2- son: "mom what should i do if he wants to be me up again?" mom: "have confidence.. know that no one can take away your confidence, confidence is the key" son thinking: * what the hell does that mean?.. get my ass kicked in style?! * confidence is a byproduct, not something u just have.. confidence is something that is built.. and another thing.. even if you have "confidence".. IT DOESNT MEAN YOU HAVE IT IN EVERY ASPECT OF YOUR LIFE we all have careers, a sex life, a family life, a social life, money issues, etc etc.. you could "have confidence" in one area and all the rest still be screwed up so what kind of advice is that? dumbass people.. there is more to life than just "have confidence".. there are many different factors and issues that go into successfully navigating life if all you think a person needs is to "have confidence" and do what u do with style, attitude, and conviction.. then you are probably a super shallow and deluded human being
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