if you are a "churched" person i'm sure at some point you've heard a woman say that quote
"he who finds a wife finds a good thing" women are always saying this to explain that they are "a good thing" they want to let it be known that they are something to be sought after, they want to proclaim that they should be highly treasured the problem i have with many women quoting this is i feel they aren't understanding it fully "he who finds a WIFE......" meaning you have to be WIFE MATERIAL the bible doesn't say "he who finds a THOT finds a good thing" or "he who finds a ratchet-hoe finds a good thing" women don't seem to get this it doesn't even say "woman".... it says WIFE.. meaning you have to be wife material and add value to that man's life.. be a crown for him and not a reproach so.................... look, are we clear here? can we stop with the pretentious quoting of that verse from all women? cuz all women are not wife material real talk i got much love to the good women and i honestly got much love to the ratchet ones too because the ratchet ones are humorous to me but lets just call a spade a spade here
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i have noticed that women feel like men should be led by God and purpose and men feel like women should be led by her man and her kids.. responsibilities of family basically
this explains why women hate it when men show emotions.. they see a man showing emotion as a man who has the wrong priorities and focus this also explains why men dislike career oriented 'independent' women.. they seem like they are not family oriented, they have the wrong priorities and focus.. they seem 'out of order' i feel like this information is fairly basic but also somewhat of a breakthrough sometimes the opposite sex sees who u are and what you can/should be before you do and i don't think there is anything wrong with a man having emotions or a woman having a career.. but if the dial is turned too far- then these things become unattractive.. because the fact is- we have to remember to stay on the right side of our gender roles and many people today have the wrong focus in this backwards world women feel like emotional men might as well be women and men feel like career women might as well be men.. because the amount of focus placed on each a man will think something like "if she has my child will she care enough to bond with it? or will she be talking about hiring a nanny while she goes back to work?" a woman will think "will he be able to stand strong in a crisis? or will he be in his emotions?" so i think what i just explained, explains why men are oftentimes offended at career women and women are oftentimes offended and men showing emotion because A. the dial is turned too far or B. we feel they are being led by the wrong thing.. again men should be led by God and purpose while women should be led by the familial industry if you will.. and if the opposite sex senses something is off- they usually don't like it i'm in love with this white hip hop journalist named jenny boom boom.. this woman is ridiculous smh.. she's so hot that i'm like jealous of guys who get to be around her recently i heard a pastor say God will sometimes allow whatever you put above Him to rule you or hurt you
that was deep to me if you think about it- you can see that at work in many peoples' lives the sin/thing they won't let go of is the same thing holding them back i am done with online dating and talking to women online.. i have realized that it is a wasteland
talking to people online is like buying a lie.. it seems simple but its not.. why is it not simple? there are a lot of reasons 1. location.. if you meet someone in public chances are they likely live around there.. online you can meet someone who lives in ghana.. which.. honestly i saw a girl advertising in nashville yesterday who actually lives in ghana (<--i'm not kidding).. and of course there are also the less extreme cases where a person lives a two-hour drive away from you.. either way its annoying 2. too many deceptive pictures or women who post pictures not showing their bodies.. skinny women trying to look like they have booties when they don't, thick women trying to look skinny (so if you like thick women, you unfortunately end up skipping over 75% of them because they look so thin in their pictures) fat women taking 7 pictures from the neck up at an angle, etc 3. men are online generally because they want a more legit and simpler way of meeting women.. women on the other hand are online generally because they have flaws... why do i say this? because with men being the more eager gender.. women get approached in public at grocery stores, malls, bars, parties, etc so my point is, if a woman has the ability to attract men in public, you have to ask- why does she have to be online? because of flaws and things that she knows men do not want or like such as- too sarcastic too prideful (women talking about how they are "independent" every 5 minutes for example) kids undesirable bodies emotionally damaged and unavailable the list goes on.. online dating creates a "safe zone buffer" for women.. this buffer can hide a flaw long enough to keep you talking to her, until she feels she has hooked you- once she feels she has hooked you she will drop the flaw/secret on you once you drive 5 hours to meet her at her house she will say "yeah, guys usually freak out on me when i tell them this but....." and you will sit there dumbfounded as it unfolds to you that she is not the amazing diamond-in-the-rough princess you thought she was again let me say it one more time: men are online generally because they want a more legit and simpler way of meeting women.. women on the other hand are online generally because they have flaws 4. women like attention have you ever seen a band with 3 women playing instruments and a man as the lead singer? no, you haven't.. but how many times have you seen a band with 3 men playing instruments and a woman as the lead singer? exactly.. you know why that is? because men generally don't like or value attention as much as women so what i am saying here is.. women a lot of times do online dating sites for attention.. meaning they don't actually always want to date anyone.. sometimes they just want extra attention/validation.. they feel like they have power every time some guy introduces himself to her.. they like feeling like they have a certain power over men why else would a woman who already has a boyfriend be on a dating site? i've had them admit they are not single to me, and i've also just seen it on some of their profiles.. they like the attention.. they don't care if they are completely wasting your time or anything.. a LOT of women online are just looking for attention they are a COMPLETE WASTE OF TIME FOR MEN i could probably think of more reasons why i am done with online dating and talking to women online.. but i will leave you with this copy and paste i took from plentyoffish.com this is a copy and paste i took from a girls page a few minutes ago this was the last straw for me and it is what prompted me to write this whole entry: (this girl was from here... nashville area) Hey I'm not really sure where to begin. I'm not really new to online dating but it's been a while since I gave it an official try so here goes. Here's a little about myself most would describe me as bubbly. I'm generally a happy person who always has a smile on her face. I'm very laid back and easy going. I like to have fun, try new things, and travel. I am an Accountant by trade but not the typical number cruncher most think of when accountants come to mind. I'm a people person and love to meet new people regularly. There are two things that you will always get from me honesty and openness. I'm a woman with a lot of love to give to the right person. I'm a Christian and I feel strongly about my walk with God. I'm a goal oriented person. I have some things I would like to accomplish this year as well as long term. If you would like to know feel free to contact me. I also love music. I will listen to most anything except country. I'm always open to questions so feel free to inbox me if you would like to know more. True to fact of openness and honesty I would like to add that I have HSV 2 commonly known as genital herpes. It's not a life changer for me or anything that you or I will die from but I wanted to let you know I really am open and honest. ^that is not made up, i literally just took it off a girl's profile.. she was pretty.. she had everything i wanted in a woman.. so imagine the look on my face when i read that last segment sidenote: (the only reason i didn't post a screen capture with her pictures is because i respect her honesty and don't want to put her on blast) IM DONE WITH MEETING WOMEN ONLINE you have to think.. if you find women who admit they have boyfriends, and admit how prideful they are, and admit they have genital herpes.. you have to ask yourself.. what are the women who hide things hiding from you? women can be so pretty but they oftentimes are screwed up.. talking about how they had 3 abortions and all kinds of nonsense minimize your wasted time.. filter them out in real life.. don't give them that online buffer.. because trust me- 99% of them ARENT telling you about the herpes.. they aren't explaining to you why a young woman who is an 8 out of 10 is single and can't establish a good relationship offline take heed to this entry men! and good luck finding a wife these days! lol i want that captain toad game so bad lol
look at him he looks hilarious.. he looks like a baby with an afro lol so i was on boxden again and someone posted this video.. note: this video is DIRTY.. no nakedness but a lot of "mature" things going on DONT WATCH IT IF IT IF THAT WILL BUG YOU.. just want to give fair warning now.. if you've seen the whole thing or at least to the part where he is talking to women with his cell phone i want to ask a few questions
ok supposing that footage was real, my question is- IS THIS WHAT WOMEN WANT? like is that what a man has to be to get a woman? i am not dissing this guy at all- i am genuinely asking this question.. is this seriously what women want from men? this is what i take from this guy.. these are the things he has: muscles, jewelry, good hair style, fast talker, a guy with some jokes, a guy who isn't beating around the bush now.. i am not dissing him for any of this at all.. but i guess from my perspective as a self-proclaimed "square" (i say i'm a square because i found this video to be completely astonishing) i feel like maybe i have given women too much credit? maybe i feel like women want a guy who listens to them, takes them out, asks them normal things like "how was your day," etc. but this video shows me that women don't care about any of that.. so the song was right then? "girls just want to have fun" ?? are women really like this? they really just want to bang the buffest guy they can find with no strings attached? they like giving their bodies away quickly because it is "exciting" to them? they like arguing with men about where they've been because they like the unpredictability? do women like being lied to? i mean i know there's that song "love the way you lie" but i guess i thought those words were hyperbolic.. until seeing this video do women really not care for- or want sincerity? does confidence trump an honest heart? and what is confidence to a woman exactly? to a woman, does this man exemplify masculine confidence? these are honest questions i have after seeing this video because again- if that footage was real, my mind is blown real talk.. i would appreciate any comments on this video.. do you guys think i have given women too much credit? is thinking women want a relationship a false assumption? women are always saying they don't want friends with benefits, they are always saying they want a possible relationship.. is that all a lie? what should a person assume? how do women want to be treated? don't give me those cliche answers, i want to know the honest truth how does a man appeal to a woman? does the approach change based on whether she is ratchet or religious? what pieces of the puzzle am i missing? should i just quit asking questions and get a clean cut, hit the gym, and rock some ice? as far as women are concerned- is there any difference between a man wanting a girl for sex and a man wanting a girl for long term relationship and possible committment? which one sounds better to a woman's ears? are these answers dependent upon something i can alter, change, or manipulate? and am i seriously doing EVERYTHING wrong when it comes to women? i may not know everything, but let me answer that last one before anyone else: YES smh.. i've been trying to meet this one girl since like.. summer
today i told her i am lonely and need a woman in my life.. why did she say: "cheer up, i still haven't lost interest" i am trying so hard not to use cuss words right now I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO HANG OUT WITH YOU FOR MONTHS AND YOU ALWAYS HAVE A STUPID EXCUSE SO WHAT GOOD IS YOUR INTEREST!? TELL ME! WHAT GOOD IS IT!? your interest is about as valuable as a fart sandwich.. seriously what is wrong with women? why do they say and do so many stupid things? WHY!? i wanted to uppercut her through the phone when she said that btw i'm not actually lonely.. i think "horny" would be the better description.. but they sometimes feel similar.. - under pressure - i go to a website called boxden sometimes.. lol i have to post a comment i saw from that site
this is what some guy wrote on the topic of "hitting it raw:" Sometimes you just gotta. Nigga i fucked a chick in the parking lot of Walmart raw once. And 10 secs before i nutted i thought to myself "Nigga, you coulda walked a 100 feet and got a condom" & even with that thought i still didn't pull out ok.. this had me cracking up but i want to say a little something about this life in general can be dangerous, i hope people reading this will learn from what i am typing right now life is not really a joke.. everything you say and do can affect your future.. see this guy's comment is such a perfect example of what we oftentimes do as humans we sell ourselves short.. we want what we want but we are not seeing the consequences.. but the consequences of our actions are more real than the actions themselves because the consequences last longer this guy's comment is such a perfect example of how stupid we can be as humans.. so please evaluate your own life and take this as a warning wise up.. don't make a bad or unnecessarily risky decision.. look at the big picture before its too late i just wanted to put that out there.. may God bless |
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