the lowest level a person can be at in terms of results would be dysfunction because in dysfunction there are either no results or negative results
like in terms of making money.. you make none, or you make money that doesn't go to yourself or your family, or you are losing money all of those scenarios would equal out to dysfunction then you have functioning but there are levels to functioning.. are you functioning hand to mouth or paycheck to paycheck? or are you functioning in a more generative way? do you have bills that you will be paying for the next 10-20 years? or do you own all of your assets and money? do you earn money only when on the clock? or are you fortunate enough to have a paid time off... or better yet- passive income? i look at my life and i think i have overcome dysfunction.. however i feel that i am at a low level of functionality not the absolute lowest, but low enough to where i still have a lot to strive for and pray for i have no opinion on this really.. its just something i perceive (moving on, but i will build on this thought) one interesting question i like to ask is: why do you think you are single? do you peeps think there is a reason or do you all think it is happenstance? some people get married at 20 and some people are single at 30.. is there a reason or is it all just luck of the draw? when i look at women i can see there is a reason.. it'll be something like.. she only shows a masculine side to the world (i'm strong and independent and i don't need a man), or she is competitive with men (women should work with men not compete with them), or she puts no effort into trying to look nice, or her past decisions sort of take her out of the running but then i see women who are married and they are the ones who are just sweet, cute, nice, and flexible.. and i know they are married because men feel like they can work with them and have a partner/helper/friend without having to sacrifice their health and resources too much (like if she had an std or 3 kids from a previous relationship) so as a male i think the same thing must be true.. there must be a reason a male is single when i ask myself why am i single.. i come up with a few reasons but one main reason the smaller reasons would be things like.. i'm not in the best physical shape, i am not very outgoing.. these are things i think women can work with however (sort of going back to what i was saying about functionality) i think i am functioning at a level that does not make me attractive to any women when you look at women, the prerequisite that men must have is they must be functioning, and they must make their own money, have their own place, etc. that's just to get you in the door but after that they still want more.. they want you to be a creative being.. a person who can create streams of money or build favor with people, or build favor with God, or create a source of enjoyment, or provide a solid foundation for something that can be a generative "tree" of life do i have any of that? or do i just appear wildly average? i think to women i appear disgustingly average.. like i'm not hot or cold.. i'm just "blah" think about it.. women seem to either want the crazy thug or the successful business man i am neither! this, in my opinion- is why i'm single i think that to a woman, i am just that bumbling clown who has been obedient all of his life and has nothing to show for it lol do u guys think i'm way off on this or not? i think i may have to dig deeper to find more "treasure" before a woman will actually like me.. become a better version of myself.. become more creative, more generative, and more hot or cold in general in my perception- i would have to establish more of an "identity" in life to attract a woman identity is made up of many different things.. and i think i need to be a more vivid picture of myself before i can attract a woman these are just my current thoughts.. what do u guys think.. does any of this make sense or am i way off?
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