one thing i've noticed about women is they like men who
"have their life together" as a male.. i can say that "having your life together" is one of the hardest things to accomplish it is massively difficult i mean graduating school = hard acquiring a car on low wages = hard finding a decent place to live that you can afford = hard if you did anything in college other than medical field or accounting then finding a good paying and steady job = hard keeping in good shape, finding the time to workout = hard again.. women like men who ALREADY have their lives together.. with that said- DOING ALL OF THE ABOVE THINGS ALONE (because women don't want you until its all accomplished) = hard i am not complaining but real talk "having your life together" seems to be a long process that can take years.. its not like something you can just wake up and have.. you women ask us men for a hard thing.. however i do think its positive and if we do what you ask of us then we are allowing you women to make us better men just like you women ask hard things of us men.. us men ask you to do hard things also.. we primarily ask you women to close your legs and i'm sure that's hard for you because i always hear women saying things like "i hate sleeping alone" or "i like to feel protected and loved" so being alone and waiting for a husband is a struggle for a lot of you women (this is just based on my perception so correct me if i'm wrong) ... but if you women can adhere to what we men say to you- then when you finally do find a man, you will be happy you kept your legs closed to all those other men conversely.. we men have a rough lonely struggle.. wrestling with the world.. but if we make it and gain the acceptance of a woman, then we will likely be able to look back and see that it was all worth it i feel that for the most part.. all the wants and desires of the opposite sex are there to help make us better and keep us in line that's why when men speak- women should listen, and when women speak- men should listen take some things with a grain of salt, but overall.. there are some true nuggets in there like yesterday i was on meetme.com and a woman left a comment saying "why don't men like me, yes i have kids but i'm a decent woman" or something and a guy commented below her "men don't like another man's kids" instead of trying to accept or understand that or say "how can i get a man despite having kids" or trying to HEAR him out.. she literally said "what you say doesn't matter" (btw i might try to get back on there and find that and screen cap it) we have to accept the words of the opposite sex to an extent because that guy was right.. do i think that woman is out of luck? not at all... but she's the one asking why she can't find a man but she won't accept the answer.. if she would listen though, then she might have a shift in her thinking and she could say "hmm.. maybe i should start talking to men with kids" then her situation could change.. but she refuses to accept the harsh truths that are staring her in the face so when you hear the opposite sex speaking, don't always combat it.. try to let their needs, wants, and desires make you into a better person despite how challenging the expectation at hand may look
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