i saw this on a blog today
some girl was apparently talking to her other female friend i wanted to show it as an example of something i HATE i copied and pasted this from her blog again "me" is not ME.. its the girl whose blog this was Me: So how are you? Her: Eh Me: Why? Her: Because Doug doesn't seem happy Me: Hmm Her: I know you don't care Me: Well I just honestly think that you're waaay too emotionally attached to someone who wants nothing to do with you Her: Yeah... Me: So why continue to torture yourself? Her: Idk... Me: Why depend on a guy for happiness when it's clear that he doesn't feel the same about you? You laid it all out for him and he changed the subject. I'm so tired of girls thinking they need a guy to be happy. Especially the ones that push them away the most. She stopped talking to me after that. ok i wanted to show that because it is a great example of something i HATE i HATE people who do crap like this they ask you how your day was and when you respond with an honest answer they take it upon themselves to brow-beat you for what they perceive as your shortcomings i really hate people like this.. i feel like they must be very insecure or something because why else would you ask someone how their day is and basically A. not accept the answer and/or B. make them feel worse about whatever their situation may be why are these people so into their own opinions of others? man i hate these people so much wow.. like i REALLY hate them how about instead of forcing your opinion on someone who didn't ask you, why not just ask the person about their life? why not try to learn more about them without pulling the trigger on your stupid criticism so quickly? why do you think you know how to live another person's life so easily? why do you think you have their whole life figured out? why don't you see how much of an arrogant person you are being? you think you know everything i need to do in my life but trust me, if i took a look at YOUR life i could criticize you 10 times as much these are the people who call you and ask you about sore spots in your life all the time.. they don't want to have a friendly conversation, they are like flies who are attracted to sh*t.. they want to pester you about a place in your life that may not exactly be perfect.. they just want to pick at you and pick at you to make themselves feel better anyway.. here's the comment i left in response to the girl who dissed her friend you were a real jerk to your "friend" you asked her about HER day and then proceeded to lambast her about what you think she needs to do in her life.. she could probably criticize you for whatever she perceives as your shortcomings as well but she is likely a better friend to you than you are to her how about providing a listening ear? if you don't want to do that, how about just saying "you know how i feel but i wish you the best" no.. you had to just act like your opinion of her and her decisions and her life was absolutely paramount i am both amazed and disgusted by your hubris it really comes as no surprise that you are proud of your behavior look, you're entitled to your opinion, but you ARE NOT entitled to kick a person when they are down and be an arrogant jerk do your friend a favor and leave her alone this is you talking to your friends: "how was your day so i can make fun of you and rake you over the coals for something that doesn't even affect me" ridiculous i think i have more to say but not right now.. i MIGHT have to do a video entry on this because i get a sense like there may be more to say.. this is a topic that really gets me riled up so this may end up merely being a part one i may have share some personal examples too.. so keep this on your radar
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