so today i overheard a girl at my job talking about how she rejected some guy
she was talking about it and when she got to the part that made her reject him i was kinda like.... "that's it?" she said she rejected this guy because he said "what's up" this is why i say women are apathetic to men.. they just don't care about men at all.. its really weird to me.. something is not right like i don't get how anyone procreates when women act like this so i tried to clarify... me: "you rejected him because he said what's up?" her: "yeah, he don't know me like that to be saying what's up to me." me: "what do you want him to say?" her: "hello" me: "what's up IS hello" her: *starts saying something else* me: *looks away and goes back to work* she didn't say he had a bad attitude, he didn't say anything crude, he didn't have bad breath, he merely said "what's up" why do women do things like this? a guy approaches you legitimately and you come up with any excuse not to talk to him.. i don't understand it.. i started to wonder if she's even single or not because that level of apathy is mind-boggling to me to me personally, if you reject someone because they say "what's up" instead of "hello" or "hi" then you deserve to be single.. you have every right to say you want a person of a certain religion or a person who is attractive to you on some level.. but to think you can dictate every word choice a person makes is just taking it too far she went on to say "i think i ruffled his feathers because when i told him not to say what's up to me he didn't say anything else" i really wanted to comment to her at this point but i just left it alone what i wanted to say was this: "you didn't ruffle his feathers, he just put you in a certain category of women.. he's not upset, he just doesn't want anything to do with you anymore" the same reason that guy didn't reply to her is the same reason i didn't say that^ she is already on the sh*t list.. there's nothing else to discuss.. its like you've already proved how petty and bossy you are so there's nothing else to talk about.. you might as well have said "i have a penis" because it would have the same effect as your stupid overthinking and holier than thou grammar nazi "standards" i don't understand why a person would act that pretentious.. like seriously? "what's up" was probably slang in the 70s but honestly today its just basic language i really dislike people who act like they don't know what words mean in an attempt to come off as high class like if i text you and i say "stop frontin'" i don't want you to text me back a f*cking question mark.. ITS NOT THAT HARD YOU IDIOT.. "fronting" comes from the phrase, putting-on-a-front.. how is that too hard for some people to figure out? i seriously just do not get how a person could be that much of a faggot to act like they don't understand such simple "slang" how about instead of pointing fingers at men like they are all making these huge mistakes, how about you just tell the truth.. you have no interest in men because A. you have a "buddy" who keeps you busy... or B. you know you are far too boring or weird to keep a man and so you save yourself the hassle of being rejected later... or C. your vagina is a deserted abyss and you like it that way anyway.. women who act like this chick at my job really disgust me always projecting their disinterest in a way that puts a man down: "he tried to holler at me but his shoes didn't look right" "he tried to get my number but he had a stain on his shirt" "he seemed ok but he said what's up instead of hello" this stuff is seriously petty.. i honestly hope women who act like this get what they deserve... NOTHING. your standards aren't too high, they are too STUPID
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i drew this^ at work at directv and this girl who saw it was cracking up and took a picture of it with her iphone
i also created a character named ghetto mouse but i don't know what i did with those this picture i screen-captured reminded me of an entry i've been meaning to write about opportunities here^ a guy asked this girl if she'd like to hang out, but her first priority is to see the chippendale's
this is not a diss to her or anything but i'm just using it to make a point ok basically in life we all get opportunities, but its about what we do with those opportunities what if that was a good guy who would want to commit to her, and do great things for her? what if that was a limited time window of opportunity? would it be worth it to blow that guy off to go see men strip naked? i can't answer that question for this girl but my point is not about that scenario its to make you think LOOK AROUND AT YOUR CURRENT OPPORTUNITIES how resourceful are you being? are you making the most of what has been offered to you? are you really using the tools, time, talents, and people who are at your disposal? or are you choosing other things over them? think about it like this.. some things are more likely to yield fruit than others.. are you seeking to utilize the things that yield fruit? or are you just doing what seems easiest or most fun all the time? the girl i used in the example has kids.. so should she try to have a stable man in her life and have that as a priority? or should her priority be to have a man shake his penis in her face? again, i'm not dissing her but just using this for the sake of my point what i'm trying to say to anyone reading this is, really try to see things as opportunities, not just as mundane "motions of life" .. really try to look at your life and weigh things out.. are you perhaps turning down something positive? earlier i overheard someone talking on the phone this person said that the president of a company decided to have a meeting with an intern, but the intern reset the date at the last minute.. then the date actually came and the intern just didn't show up at all i thought about what i overheard what message is the intern sending? also.. what possible opportunities or connections is the intern turning down? was it just a mundane meeting to chat about business? or could it have been a turning point in the intern's life? that intern will never know the answer to that question now. ok that concludes part one of this entry.. part 2 is along the same lines, but it has to do more with fear and faith pt. 2: don't allow fear to keep you in a box i was watching some real estate thing recently and the real estate expert was talking and some random guy allowed his fear to speak in the form of a comment he said to the agent: "well, a lot of people are afraid to get a house because if you can't pay then they'll foreclose on you" the real estate expert was like "yeah that's true but if you rent and you can't pay, you're still getting kicked out, so you might as well put your money in something that can accrue value and equity." my point in using that example was to show that fear can be completely illogical when i was in middle school i remember one day i had a choice of going to the next math or re-taking the current math i was in i decided to re-take the current math i was in.. this was a stupid decision on my part why? because i was actually passing the math class i was in for some reason i just felt like i didn't have a real grasp on it so i felt "unworthy" to take the next math.. i regretted this decision once the next semester came and everyone was like "why are you in that math?" and i didn't really have an answer.. i just had to accept my own self-assessed demotion like a clown i realized everyone sucked in math, it wasn't just me.. and now looking back (hindsight being 20/20) i can see that the teachers were bad also so i demoted myself for no reason come to think of it.. it happened again later when i was like 20 and my g/f at the time said she wanted to get an engagement ring and i didn't want to take that step because i didn't feel like i could handle the responsibility of such a title well now here i am 8 yrs later and single lol.. so why didn't i just accept what i had at the time? why did i think i "wasn't able to measure up" ? fear. fear keeps you from advancing in life faith is the opposite of fear.. when you see people who don't advance, they probably need to face their fears i am thankful because i have been crippled by fear a lot in my life but i honestly feel like i've been breaking out of that.. for example when i got my job at directv, i never stopped looking for more jobs.. i didn't become complacent.. i didn't say "this is all i can get" .. i said "i can keep striving" and now i have a much better job fear would say something like "don't leave what you have now" "you need to stay safe" "what if your new job doesn't work out?" "what will leaving look like on your resume?" deal with things as they come, don't think you will be able to iron out every kink and figure everything out before you make a move, because you will just end up talking yourself out of action.. JUST MOVE imperfect action is better than no action so when it comes to opportunity, the main two things i wanted to say are.. look around and NOTICE your opportunities, NOTICE the things at your disposal.. try to be resourceful if you have a car, use it.. if you have the internet, use it.. if you have the gift of gab, use it.. don't wait for some proverbial "ok" or "green light" also.. recognize fear for what it is... recognize when you are making excuses to not do something.. recognize that in order to get what you want you may need to shift to an attitude of faith.. realize that even if you fail you'll be ok.. the failure police won't appear out of the sky and beat the crap out of you.. you can try again.. or maybe the failure itself will just end up being a blessing in disguise and here's a big one.. realize that if God places you in a role, you can probably succeed in it let me say that again.. and this time i will say it with FAITH.. if God places you in a role, you will succeed in it this^ is what faith is all about changing your attitude, tone, perspective.. not having it all mapped out but believing anyway.. expecting there to be something at the end of the road without seeing the end of the road.. being positive don't turn down a role God gave you.. embrace it and if u honestly feel u need more strength or wisdom to occupy the role ASK GOD FOR IT!!!! remember, God will give wisdom unbegrudgingly! you may not be able to occupy that role on your own strength so remember to pray and ask God for wisdom and strength.. don't turn down the role.. don't turn down that higher paying- yet more technical job.. have faith.. TAKE THE JOB, THANK GOD, AND ASK HIM FOR HELP!! i wish u the best!! so i was on meetme.com and i wanted to use some of these posts i saw as an example of women being elusive and confusing this is not a diss to women, it is just me showing how guys see you and what we are thinking this girl seems decent, i don't know her i just wanted to use her as an example all these posts from this girl are within a day of each other ok so a guy is thinking something like.. "she's a single mom so she's probably looking for a guy" ..not only because she's a single mom but also because SHES ON MEETME.COM this is misleading though because she appears to be completely apathetic toward the prospect of meeting men (keep reading) guys are trying to get in your life.. guys are trying to occupy a space in your life somehow if you stop talking to him and he's still interested then he's like what gives? my guess is that she just isn't interested, but obviously she's not saying that.. she's saying she's busy.. which is why he says "ok well then hit me up when u get a chance" WHICH WONT HAPPEN so when she says she's busy that's essentially a lie.. you can dress it up and say its a "not now" or "he should get a clue" but at the end of the day no one wants to be led on.. so lets call a spade a spade.. its a lie she attempts to indignantly justify ignoring people who are interested in her this one was just weird to me because she says "#getyourlife" as if whoever she's indirectly talking about has no life, or as if she has a 'fuller' life than what they have she also called them a whiny baby, essentially insulting them because they express interest in her, which again ESSENTIALLY is her telling them to go away btw.. if you are so busy on your "grown woman money tip" then why are you always on meetme.com responding to things that you seem to think are petty? i'm just pointing out how her words and actions seem contradictory to onlookers aka interested men here a guy asked her if she direct messages people she didn't answer the question.. she also didn't acknowledge the fact that he ALREADY messaged her and she apparently didn't respond to it here is basically, not a LIE, but a sort of lie.. it is an evasive tactic.. women do this a lot instead of saying "i read your message but didn't respond" or "i saw that you messaged me but didn't read it" she avoids it altogether by playing dumb or averting attention to something else unfortunately, her tactic points the finger back at the guy as if he made some sort of mistake, when the reality is she just isn't interested in him my new gauge for these things is like this.. a girl gives me an excuse and then i ask myself a question like: "if i was justin timberlake, would i have heard this same excuse?" the answer is pretty much always NO. and if the answer is no, that means she is not interested in you.. because its not a matter of her excuse, its a matter of her priorities here she is contradicting what she said earlier about being too busy at work to talk or make plans or anything.. she's taking pictures of herself at her job and posting them to the internet.. and not only that, but she is typing out responses to the comments, while still at work this kind of stuff is confusing to men.. we see it and we are like, "ok she said this, but she DID, this.. so which is it?" and normally when we weigh out what to do (pursue or leave her alone) we go with pursue, because that's what we want to do and we are giving the girl the benefit of the doubt like: "well maybe she really is busy even though she doesn't seem too busy" but to any male reading this, i want you to choose the "leave her alone" option next time don't listen to her words, look at her actions she said she's too busy to talk to you but she's online all day taking pictures and responding to everyone except you.. revoke your attention from her immediately and seek to give it to a girl (or thing) deserving of it she obviously has time on the weekend to go out, but SHE DOESNT WANT TO DO ANYTHING WITH YOU
this is what i mean when i say its about her priorities, not her excuses so overall, i just wanted to speak on this because its very common i'm not going to tell women to be more truthful because i highly doubt if that would ever happen so men.. here's what i want to say to you: don't waste time and emotional energy chasing women, tell them it would be fun if they came to hang out with you and if they give an excuse, move to another one immediately.. i'm only saying this to you because women don't say no, they give you excuses.. we men oftentimes will keep pursuing until we hear a flat "no" in other words.. you will find yourself pursuing something that isn't actually available to you for one reason or another in other words, you will be boosting her ego and wasting your own time remember to ask yourself "if i was (insert guy that women love here) would i have gotten this excuse?" if the answer is 'no' then let her go because she is about to waste your time girls won't even tell you they have a boyfriend.. they will really word things in a way to where you basically think she's single but she's actually engaged women really are that desperate for attention, so remember, don't LISTEN to her.. watch her actions based on what i've shown from this girl's profile.. you can see that women can be confusing until you know what to look for one day when (or if) i get a girlfriend i want to ask her what my issues are
what do i do that is stupid or ridiculous that i am unaware of i remember asking a previous g/f this but she never answered the question.. that really annoyed me because i don't think i am perfect i mean, it wouldn't hurt my feelings if i said to someone "tell me what is annoying about me" and they told me i was ready to take the criticism! i really want an objective viewpoint on what my flaws are i can't ask my parents or family because their view of me is severely skewed.. they will get out a list of flaws thats as long as a roll of toilet paper i legit want to know what my issues are people always talk about others behind their back one day i just want to know the truth, right in my face i look at it like.. hey you're making me a better person.. its not negative how can i fix myself if i don't know what i am doing wrong? i hope i'm receptive when the time comes why do women think sarcasm is so attractive? my theory is that women like sarcasm in men but men don't like it in women.. BUT WOMEN DONT KNOW MEN DONT LIKE IT here's my explanation.. sarcasm and humor are both forms of intelligence.. i think women are attracted to intelligent men or men who exude signs of intelligence/awareness men however do not share this same viewpoint when it comes to women.. we don't value "smart" when it comes to women.. the words: "bimbos" and "dumb blondes" come to mind a lot of times we men just think sarcastic women are either jerks, depressed (defense mechanism), or trying to sound intelligent.. but not the genuine intelligence.. more like pseudo hipster "intelligence" sarcastic women are kinda annoying to men generally.. they are women you chill with but never really date or take seriously SO with that said, i had a little dialogue with a girl from plenty of fish about her sarcasm.. here's her profile note her headline lets recap:
NO, I DONT HATE YOU, THATS MY SARCASM IM EXTREMELY SARCASTIC SOMETIMES PEOPLE ARE OFFENDED REMEMBER, DON'T BE HURT WHEN I SAY SOMETHING HURTFUL! AHYUCK! when i read her profile, i sent her a message, i told her about when i dated a girl who was super sarcastic and how quickly it got old she said "oh its just my humor, i'm not overly sarcastic" then i went back to her profile, and i saw she changed it.. she took out the parts about being extremely sarcastic and how it hurts peoples feelings at least she kinda heard me out but overall, this is just another one of those things where i don't get why women think this is cool.. this is a big problem on plenty of fish and dating sites in general women are always talking about how witty and sarcastic they are.. why do this? why do you think people like hearing you crack dry, negative jokes all the time.. especially when a lot of them are bound to be about me? (i.e. "sometimes people are offended" "don't let me hurt your feelings") so let's see, i get to take you out, buy you dinner and one of two things happens.. A. you do a seinfeld-esque comedy routine about your life B. you make fun of me and say "i'm just kidding" over and over how about you stop wasting time talking about how amazingly funny you are and post a picture that isn't a mere closeup of your face?' oh and another thing.. you're sarcastic, you wear glasses, and your taste in music is a huge "benefit" for everyone around you YOU'RE A HIPSTER. so, lately i keep hearing women say a certain thing
what is that thing? "i intimidate men" i have a few issues with this statement i have heard this from no less than 3 females recently (possibly more, but i specifically remember 3).. and i don't mean on tv either, i mean in my everyday life i want you to guess what all of these women have in common.... yep.. they are single. its funny how the same women who say "i intimidate men" are the same women who say things like "i don't need a man" .. the problem isn't men, its your attitude and the world you create with your words.. a man doesn't want to hear about how little you need him you idiot.. no one does it may not necessarily be negative or false but you still don't say it.. its like if someone is fat, they don't need you to call them fat.. or here's another example, say you have two friends but you like one more than the other.. you don't say to the one you like less "I LIKE CINDY WAY MORE THAN I LIKE YOU" even if its true.. YOU DONT SAY THAT THIS IS YOUR PROBLEM YOU DUMBASS WOMEN!! YOU KEEP TELLING MEN YOU DONT NEED THEM TO THEIR FACE!!!! YOU KEEP SAYING STUPID THINGS THAT TURN US OFF!!!!! you women say these things to the point where they become like ignorant manifestoes women.... if you went on a date with a guy and he said his main problem is that he intimidates women, would that be a turn on to you? seriously tell me.. i really want to know.. like is there something i'm not getting here? why do you women say this to us men? "i intimdate men" "men are intimidated by me" MAYBE YOU'RE JUST A SCARY F*CKING PERSON, DID YOU EVER THINK OF THAT!? do you like staring people down? do you like to point out people's flaws and mistakes? are you TOO opinionated? do you have an elitist attitude? MAYBE YOU'RE A HUGE ASSHOLE. oh no, that can't be the case, its the men.. there are too many weak spineless men, and that's the issue, right? how about maybe being nice or gracious? how about not being a loud mouth? how about not turning dates into conversations about women's rights? like seriously how arrogant to say "i intimidate the opposite sex" as if its just something that happens.. IT WOULDNT HAPPEN IF YOU WERE A HUMBLE PERSON, JACKASS!!!!! i even talked to my mom about this and even she made a face like she smelled something rotten.. she was like.. "why would a girl think that's attractive?" i was like "exactly! I DONT KNOW!" women.. stop talking about how you intimidate men.. it is so... its just ridiculous.. if you are aware of this then change it.. like why do you talk about it like its a badge of honor? "im single because i intimidate 50% of the population" YOU'RE AN ARROGANT SELF-AMUSED ASSHOLE AND A DAMN IDIOT i've been gone for a while peeps.. i have had a hard time getting my thoughts together.. also i've had a lot on my mind and i've been kinda busy
i guess to get back into it, i'll start small as you can see i posted some pictures, now i'll just talk about a few things that have been going on i quit my job at directv.. my last day was friday i quit because i got another job that is a lot closer and pays a lot more and has better hours.. my first day was today (tuesday) i haven't talked about this because the first time i said something about having a new job, i felt like people were kinda hating on me.. i'm not bragging though, its just a fact.. i got a better job (i'm not telling anyone what i do btw.. i guess this is how tommy felt lol.. i'm just tired of people knowing OR THINKING THEY KNOW my business) anyway.. i'm going to miss tyrell and all his stories about girls.. i'm gnna miss fivehead's booty.. that job at directv was seriously like a family.. being in a room 8 hours a day with a bunch of people does that i guess some of u may wonder what happened with crystal.. i got her phn number and texted her but she never hit me up so i left her alone so as not to harass her after a while she actually hit me up and kinda explained that she is apprehensive about guys because "something bad happened" to her 3 yrs ago i said cool, and came to the conclusion that i'd give her space but i'm still going to try to hang out with her or something if possible.. i'm honestly over that whole thing, so whether she comes around or not, i'm fine now u may be asking.. how exactly did u get "over" it? i'm being real with u i've been really blessed lately to the point where i legit don't care anymore i woke up one day and realized i'm a good person.. seriously, i'm not stunting or anything i'm just saying that if a girl can't see my good qualities or doesn't want to give me a chance then cool.. someone will eventually want to be with me i am a good guy.. i don't mean this arrogantly, i mean i am the type of guy who will marry a girl and honor her.. i may not be perfect but i have a lot of love to give and i won't play games.. so if a girl doesn't accept me then cool.. she's missing out on legit love, care, honesty, and commitment i have gotten to a point where i don't know what else i have to do to be attractive to women.. i've been trying and trying.. don't get me wrong, I KNOW MY WORK ISNT DONE, AND I STILL HAVE A LOT OF ROOM FOR IMPROVEMENT but in some instances i don't know what women see when they see me when i walk up to you and i'm polite and nice and i compliment you and i dress decent and smell decent and you know i have a job and a car.. i don't get what the hold up is.. i don't get why i can't get a date.. i know i'm not a perfect person, but if i present myself to you the best i can and you still won't pay me any attention, then hey.. just forget it.. someone will like me one day moving on.. i got "my name is earl" season 1 on dvd!!!!! I LOVE THIS SHOW!!! this is the first "toy" i bought myself since i started working again.. it was only $10 at walmart!!! i've noticed no one has seen the show.. everyone says "yeah i've seen it on, but i never sat and watched it" its a good show.. check it out.. the pilot episode is definitely the one i recommend if you haven't seen the show before i get off this particular entry i want to thank God for getting me through so much.. getting me through school and unemployment and issues with girls and various uncertainty THANK YOU i feel like a lot of the work i put in over the years is finally beginning to pay off in a lot of ways so thank you for being so good to me i really appreciate it i know i can't accomplish anything without you... but all things through Christ! as for mah readers.. i will try to come back as soon as possible with a few short entries next.. maybe a few pet peeves or something.. that was quite a break but i'm trying to be "back" hollaz |
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