i want to talk right now about an issue i have with some women today
ok i am not a perfect man lets put that out right now.. so i'm not being arrogant here, i'm just pointing out a place where a lot of women on the dating scene make us men lose interest today one thing i have seen with some women is this feminist attitude the feminist attitude brings certain things with it mainly contention, distrust, and independence the feminist viewpoint is really nothing more than pride when girls bring this attitude around me i agree with them and compliment them on how insightful they are.. then i never call them back. the contention.. the "since-you-say-up-then-i-say-down" thing gets old incredibly fast the distrust makes me feel unwanted the independent mindstate makes me think you are going to do whatever you want when we have a disagreement.. instead of any kind of humble submission or flexibility on your part, it will be a tooth and nail fight what a lot of people don't get is that in order for relationships to work, there has to be a dynamic.. the men are the strong leaders and the women are the flexible helpers.. if a woman wants a flexible helper then she can find a weak man whom she can walk all over.. AND WE ALL KNOW HOW MUCH WOMEN LIKE WEAK MEN! (o: if a man wants a headstrong and inflexible woman then.. then that ngga is weird lol i am a polite guy.. just because i want a woman who is soft, cute, sweet, open, and GENERALLY AMIABLE doesn't mean i am a tyrant.. it doesn't mean i want to abuse her and rub her face in the dirt and walk all over her.. it means i want to occupy my gender role with relative ease and i want to allow her to occupy her gender role in the same way i don't want to make this long-winded all i truly want to say is that when i run into these girls who aren't interested in being GIRLS, it is a turn off.. when you go on a date with a chick and she is preoccupied with proving some sort of dominance over you- the inherent masculinity of her actions and demeanor are a ROYAL TURN-OFF i want someone who is flexible and able to go with the flow, not someone who is always trying to argue with me about some trivial nonsense i want someone soft, humble, and approachable.. not headstrong, prideful, and stubborn so all in all i just want any females reading this to try and get what i am saying.. understand that i am not dissing you, i am telling you that if you drop that feminist "men-are-stupid-and-i-don't-need-them" thing then you will be a lot more likable to men i like ACTUAL GIRLS.. i don't want to date queen latifah.. MEN WANT REAL WOMEN PLEASE STOP TRYING TO IMPRESS MEN BY DISPLAYING CONTROLLING AND MASCULINE TRAITS.. IT DOESN'T WORK stop with the attitudes and the "i-can-do-whatever-u-do-better-than-you" thing, because that attitude is demeaning to what a person brings to the table in a relationship stop talking about being INDEPENDENT all the time! it is counterproductive!!!! how would you feel if you went on a date and a guy (whether directly or indirectly) said: "i don't need a woman in my life" ?? really stop and think about how that would make you feel and how you would react to it!!!!! be sweet and cute and kind and you will give your man a lot more to work with and smile about don't you want a man to treat you like a lady? i'm sure you do, so ask yourself.. what's so wrong with treating your man like a man? GIVE IT A REST ON THE "WOMEN'S LIB" CRAP!
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