each sex has different gender roles
not only diff gender roles but each sex is attracted to diff things 3 basic examples: women don't like dumb men men don't like smart women women like experienced men men don't like experienced women women like older men men like younger women the sooner people realize men and women are not the same and have completely different expectations and desires- the better off we will be stop giving the opposite sex what you seek.. give them what they seek instead come on people! we can do better
0 Comments
i feel so anxious right now .. wow
what am i so anxious for? what is the cure for this? i feel like i might just spontaneously combust like i'm a walking ball of potential energy its like my body and mind both expect something but what? ok so today i went to office depot for a bit
i saw a white girl there with the biggest booty wow.. man her booty was so big i just wanted to follow her everywhere anyway.. i didn't even get on here to say that.. inconsequential BUT.. i wanted to say they have some great prices on computers and not only that but windows 8 is finally out! i was at office depot screwin around with windows 8 and it seems dope so far! the layout of everything seemed really cool.. i was feelin it.. i was surfin the web and just peepin how everything works on the new os.. i think i approvez just wanted to let u all know its out and it seems fly peaCe i was saying to someone that i want some good references.. ones that are outside the realm of my friends and family
how can you feel any real sense of independence if you have to go through every person you know to get into a position? also if one person you know gives a reference, chances are they will tell someone else you know, and that person will tell someone else you know.. so for a few days everyone around you is like "hey i heard such and such job called you" .. i don't know if this bothers you guys, but i'm apparently a private person because i hate this type of crap i don't like people talking about me behind my back unless its more of an impersonal relationship.. then i don't mind it so much so as a result.. i decided on two solutions 1. do volunteer work and get a reference from one or two people in that realm 2. bribes now.. i told someone about the bribe thing and someone said i shouldn't do it.. what about you? do you think its legit? i want to give my stance on this: ok... i'm sorry but this is the real world and if i've learned anything from college its this: its not how you follow the rules, its how you succeed. in college they tell you to read a 500page book but you can watch the movie instead they tell you to take a test without using the internet or your textbook but you know that everyone else in the class is going to use them so why should you be the only person who doesn't? look, i'll even give a real life example: ok.. one time in a class i had at belmont university, a sociology teacher told us to interview a minority outside of our own race now.. this was fairly simple for white people because there were a few black people walking around however i would've had to somehow find an asian person, or an indian, or a hispanic person in order to finish my assignment.. anyone who has been to belmont knows its like 95% white and then there are some blacks and finding other races after that is like finding a needle in a haystack long story short i made up my interview and got an A on the assignment i HAD to in order to finish the dang thing.. if i followed the rules i would've just failed the assignment.. who the f*ck was i supposed to interview? my point is.. life is not about following "rules" whether written or unwritten to the T.. no instead its about using your own creativity to get what you want without doing something too far outside the realm of the law or social norms so... to me the bribe idea is madd legit right now i'm working on volunteer work references.. but honestly if i need to i will break someone off to help me out to me its just being strategic.. you can't fault a guy for using what he has to get what he wants i just think sometimes today its important to come up with a creative way around bureaucratic society and it's endless array of red tape i met a guy today and he told me about how he got married and divorced
i was like "what happened?" he said "well.. i don't think she ever really truly wanted to marry me.. i just looked good on paper and i was what her parents wanted her to go for.. the all-american southern guy with home town values" so they were married but finally came to a point where she just said.. look.. IM NOT HAPPY.. and they ended it this was interesting to hear and this is what i'm saying when i get on here and diss the f*ck out of family and their opinions if you're an adult you can't be out here in life making decisions because you think they'll make your family happy she knew in her heart she didn't want this guy but she just said "well, this is what everyone says i should want" so she did it and that was a whole lot of time wasted when she could've just gone for what she wanted in the first place you can't just be making decisions for dumb superficial reasons "oh yeah he's great- he's got blonde hair and blue eyes" ^dumb stuff like this is probably what this girl continually heard from her family family can be so one-dimensional its ridiculous they see you one way.. its wrong they see you with one type of person.. wrong again they see you in a certain occupation.. WRONG if you're an adult.. of course, keep loving your family.. but you have your own ideas, your own brain, your own wants and desires.. so as far as taking their advice? tell them to kick rocks. i just made this illustration to show how dumb that whole "don't judge" thing is this just shows how absurd it can be.. a rapist telling someone not to judge him.. ITS RETARDED.. imagine him saying "don't judge" ..as if YOU'RE the one in the wrong!! the fact of the matter is this.. SOME PEOPLE NEED TO JUST ACCEPT CRITICISM for example.. say there is a 36 yr old man who is unemployed and you say to him "you need to get a job" it would be pretty dumb of him to get high and mighty and start the whole "who are you to judge me?" thing.. he really just needs to listen instead of getting on a high horse and trying to turn the tables on you.. and that is what people do today.. all the time i hear these people pulling that "HOW-DARE-YOU-JUDGE-ME!?" card.. look.. YOU'RE NOT FOOLING ANYONE.. just because you can yell and scream and flail your arms doesn't mean you "won" and you're all of a sudden "right" now.. no.. you're still wrong "don't judge" can make sense in some situations.. like when someone is assuming something that isn't true.. but when a thing is true and you are just telling someone to get their life in order.. they shouldn't be saying "don't judge" 'don't judge' has basically become like a pretentious way of saying "shutup" in 2012 its like.. "don't hold me accountable for my actions" "approve what i am doing" "stop using your discretion" I WILL USE MY DISCRETION AND EXPRESS MY OPINION.. IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, TAKE IT UP WITH THE FIRST AMENDMENT, ASSHOLE so i finished a class just recently.. i got an A in it
it was a class about the marketing and advertising industry i am very happy i got an A.. i'm also somehow glad i took this class (normally i'm just glad classes are over lol.. but this one seemed well worth it) i want to just do a little recap of the class ok one cool thing about it is i had to interview someone with a marketing job and so i looked online and found that there is a thing called nama which is the Nashville American Marketing Association i went to one of their functions.. it was free.. it was down at a place called sam's bar and grille they had free pizza and everything, it was dope! everyone was really nice.. it seemed like a great bunch of people.. i interviewed 3 people and got a perfect score on my assignment what i learned from attending nama was that advertising/marketing might be a really cool career field to get into! i was really surprised and it opened my eyes a lot.. the people at nama all told me to make sure i get an internship so they definitely changed my path because i was probably going to forego that.. but now i really feel that its a must one other thing about this class is it kinda helped me to know what it means to lead we had to do group work online and on top of this.. no one was really familiar with some of the aspects of the assignment i didn't know what to do but i kinda took it into my hands anyway.. what i learned is that most people would rather be led than lead.. as a result- there are a lot of leadership positions just waiting to be filled by a person who is able to exude confidence and reassure others i took on the leadership position and told everyone that we would do a good job.. what makes this such a great accomplishment is the fact that everyone was panicking.. i had to stand in the gap and help everyone chill.. give out tasks and make up for things that didn't get done and stuff.. in the end it made me feel good to reassure everyone and oversee it all.. even though one of our group members dropped the class and we we didn't get it all done- we still got a B+ on the project so yeah.. overall.. the class was stressful but looking back i'm really glad i took it.. it reinforced some things for me and opened my eyes to some things i wouldn't have grasped otherwise index 2 da sky (thanking the Lord) seriously i'm really happy i took that and i'm glad i got an A |
pooL boi
we dewen it Archives
December 2012
|