1. u either have it or u don't.. "good looks"
i have a very wide.. what's the word.. palette when it comes to what looks good.. i don't discriminate when it comes to race
i also like a lot of diff sizes.. (however really fat or really skinny is always a negative in my eyes)
generally what i like is a female who appears female.. this goes from shape all the way to attitude, style of dress, etc.. it can be a number of things
ugly cannot be tolerated by any man, no man will ever be with an ugly woman with a "golden personality" .. he may hit it and not tell any of his friends but he will not stay with someone who he feels is unattractive
what is and isn't attractive varies a lot from one man to another
this is why i say women should not be ashamed of how they look because what i deem unattractive, another man may deem it cute
for example i am not in the least bit attracted to beyonce.. and people see her as like a standard of beauty but i am not impressed or excited by her in any way
one thing i'd also like to say is.. one outstanding thing can bring up the rest of u..
like if u have an amazing booty and ur face is a 6.. then once i see ur booty then i will likely count ur face as an 8
some guys tell me- as long as the face is good then to them the body is good
however i am the opposite and i feel like as long as the body is good then the face is generally good.. i guess that means i am really big on the beauty of a woman's body
femininity also adds to a woman's attractiveness.. this is often overlooked but trust me i will overlook a woman with a great body completely if she appears masculine
having a good personal style that works for you also can help
2. be a Christian
if ur not a Christian i'm not dating you PERIOD.
i have learned this the hard way
i've dated non Christians and its just beneath me, seriously i am being 100% honest when i say this:
i'd rather be single for the rest of my life than date another non-Christian female
i feel very strongly about this
i will not waste one more second on a non Christian female ever again in my life
even fake Christians.. if u say ur a Christian but u are blatantly living a sinful lifestyle then u are not worth my time
smh don't even get me started, i feel like i could go on forever about this topic.. look i'll just say this, if you don't believe in God then u and i just can't connect
like the other day at work this chick said "i don't like church" .. that statement alone was madd stupid to me.. like u don't go to church necessarily because u LIKE it.. u go and u learn about God and spiritual things.. u don't necessarily go to be entertained.. u go for the outcome.. or u simply go to be obedient to the Lord
its like going to work to get paid or going to the hospital to get better
people who don't believe in God are ridiculous to me on a lot of levels.. they are the type of people who never make connections
like the Bible says in the last days there will be many natural disasters..
a Christian will think "ok i have no idea when Jesus is coming back, but since i'm seeing natural disasters i'm going to at least TRY to get my act together"
a non-believer will see huge sinkholes, earthquakes, tsunamis, floods, volcano eruptions, and more and they'll just be like "wow that's wild" and they'll never think of anything in terms of morality or eternity..
like i can say right now that the antichrist will either be gay or just single.. because the Bible says that the antichrist will have no desire for a woman
but people who don't believe in God will not take heed to that and they'll be trying to elect a gay man or something stupid like that.. not knowing that they are basically owning themselves in the process
people who don't believe in God are just ignorant to me
a person who doesn't believe in God will have an encounter with a demon and say it was a "ghost".. like they just don't understand what is really going on around us
3. have a good head on ur shoulders
a woman with a good head on her shoulders generally makes decent decisions.. is generally tolerable and sane
here are examples of flawed women in this area
- u have too much baggage and u can't/won't let it go
- u are always with a female friend
- u quote things out of rap songs like they're Bible scriptures.. such as: "they need a lady in the street, and a freak in the bed" .. A QUOTE LIKE THAT SHOULD NOT BE YOUR MANIFESTO FOR EVERYTHING.. and if i have to explain why then u need to just get off my website right now
- u like to do drugs, smoke cigarettes
- when u get free time the only things u think about are clubs, bars, drinking, partying, etc
- u do things simply because "i'm young" or "i'm a free-spirit" (excuses like these normally are used to justify dumb actions)
- u are a slut and u don't even know it
- u are on "happy" meds
- u can't turn "off" once work is over (so i try to talk to u about something but u steer everything into a conversation about work or the future.. u can't just be in the now and spend quality time with me)
if a woman doesn't do any of these things she probably has a good head on her shoulders.. has her priorities straight, etc
u know honestly that's really it.. those r the top 3 things for me
if i could meet a girl with these qualities, and if she'd also be short (cuz i'm not the tallest dude) then i think i'd be cool
those 3 main things pretty much cover it all don't they?
everything else is just details