i was listening to a song and this guy said something i found to be very substantial the song was about a girl said something like "you make me feel like a grown man" this is something a lot of people don't think about this is one important factor in having a successful romantic relationship u have to make the opposite sex feel like they are fulfilling their gender roles guys: u should make your woman feel like more of a woman women: u should make your man feel like more of a man this is actually quite simple but very key and a lot of people miss it if u can make a guy feel like he is a smart person, or a good leader, or like he is strong and helpful, then he will appreciate that even if he never says it outloud he will internalize it and associate u with "she makes me feel good" if u can make a girl feel more feminine and more desirable, make her feel loved and cared for then she will appreciate that as well that guy said "u make me feel like a grown man" .. or in other words.. u make me feel comfortable in my own skin, you make me feel like i'm doing something right.. u make me feel responsible and powerful i guess the female song version of this would be that old song "natural woman" (u make me feel like a natural woman) when u treat ur spouse the way they should be treated then things will generally be in order when u don't then that is disorder what is an example of disorder? say a woman tries to emasculate a man.. that is disorder and one of the quickest ways to get dumped.. if u strip a guy of his manhood he will leave because he realizes he feels better about himself without u than with u if a man beats his girl that is disorder.. a lot of girls like reaffirming touch from males.. or i also hear a lot of women say they hate sleeping alone.. in other words they like the feeling of being safe and secure and comforted when they sleep.. so a man should reaffirm and provide a security blanket through touch, therefore; it is out of order for him to use physical touch as a weapon its like he is essentially using his hands for the opposite of what they are meant for kinda like how police are meant to serve and protect but sometimes they harass and beat innocent citizens this is a reminder to anyone reading if u are talking to anyone romantically if u are a girl and u are talking to a guy and u want him to like u more, then build up his manhood and masculinity if u are a guy and u are talking to a chick then build up her femininity.. make her feel beautiful and desirable celebrate the differences between genders.. don't fight over them but celebrate them and use them to your advantage male and female fit perfectly together both physically as well as on many invisible planes, embrace it and the puzzle pieces will fit i have noticed in life oftentimes the physical realm is a mere representation of the mental, spiritual, and emotional realms.. so say sexual union is the physical manifestation of male/female connection.. let me give an illustration of this that may deepen someone's understanding of the importance of gender differences: i say love dries up because love is better harbored through ORDER
disorder causes contention.. like today u see a lot of male/female contention.. but say.. 60 yrs ago there was far more harmony between genders.. this is why a lot of our grandparents stayed married while a lot of us today get divorced one example of disorder is the feminist movement.. the feminist movement was actually orchestrated by the elite to weaken the family unit.. make women feel as if they are being oppressed, (this is why the chivalry of the past is never mentioned.. chivalry says "u don't have to work because i will work FOR you".. feminism says "you are oppressing me and won't ALLOW me to work".. textbooks never mention the chivalrous ways of the past.. today people say chivalry is dead.. I WONDER WHY.. smh) get them out in the workforce to double the amount of taxes being paid out.. because at the time the feminist movement began.. most households were one income.. now with the women out working and competing with men there is now some level of contention in the household as gender roles are challenged but more importantly to the 'elite' is the fact that with mom and dad now out working, school is then made into a necessity as there is no one to watch or teach children, so then all kids have to go to school and learn atheist based lessons.. thus the evil elite.. the luciferians who have boatloads of money.. the same ones who run the media and control the news and the same ones who conspire to create a one-world government and kill Christianity have a foothold on your children's minds because they are the ones who bought out the textbook companies wow.. so i just said a lot some of u may not believe me.. do the research.. look up margaret sanger and see who she worked for and why these conspiracies are real.. u fight them whenever u live a righteous and orderly lifestyle again: YOU FIGHT THEM WHEN YOU LIVE A RIGHTEOUS AND ORDERLY LIFESTYLE.. and you can start by respecting, honoring, and validating the opposite sex
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