ok one thing i want to put out there is why i'm so adamant about telling girls i don't dance they don't seem to understand why i make it a point to say it specifically and be so serious about it the reason i'm like this is because i am a black male.. there is a myth out there that all black men like to dance.. remember that movie "save the last dance" ? yeah that movie was nothing but an hour of stereotypes.. but white girls across the world really have fantasies like that.. like they will be the hip white girl with some usher type guy or something some white females seem to think they can date me and go dancing with me and its just built-in because i'm black i've been guilt tripped into dancing when i have expressed that i have no interest in it see there's a certain psychological debate that happens when u say u don't want to dance.. people then begin to try to make other assumptions about your character "you're afraid" "you're too shy" or my favorite "you CAN'T dance so let me show you how" this puts me in a position of trying to prove i can do something that i never wanted to do in the first place and i am subjected to someone trying to teach me something because "i need to know how" or because "no girl will ever like a guy who doesn't take her dancing" after a while of being subjected to this i realized it is all manipulation if i say i don't have interest in something then it is your job to respect that, if you can't then get out of my life if you can't handle the fact that i am black yet not a walking stereotype then that's fine.. LEAVE i am not here to be anyone's bo-jangles if a girl said "i don't like video games" that's fine.. i'm not going to begin to play with her mind and make her feel less-than because she isn't interested in them.. i'm not going to say "oh, you must be too chicken to play" that would be manipulation.. women have ways of manipulating guys.. its like when u see politics and someone says "if you don't do this or that, then you're not a real american" well then you try to do what they say a "real american" does.. little do you know YOU WERE ALWAYS A REAL AMERICAN.. but u have now fell victim to a trap and that's what i dealt with from about age 16 to 19 and i don't mean just dancing either.. i mean women do this sort of thing in many situations they like to say that what they like is important and what you like is trivial and stupid i was called immature and childish cuz i liked video games i was called out of touch and unattractive cuz i had no interest in dancing i was praised for watching things like dawson's creek and romantic adam sandler movies after a while i realized how much i was being manipulated GIRLS.. YOU DO NOT HOLD THE LEASE ON EVERYTHING SMART INTELLIGENT OR GOOD this is the same thing that people do to blacks.. if you have an upstanding black person then people say "you act white" AS IF EVERY GOOD TRAIT IS WHITE AND EVERY BAD TRAIT IS BLACK girls need to figure out whether they want a man or a girlfriend with a penis.. girls want ment to sacrifice everything masculine yet remain happy in the relationship.. its not going to happen u probably still don't believe or understand me.. let me give some visual examples of what i mean. ^this is what girls find attractive.. this is how guys can get approval from women
BUT ITS GAY AS F*CK!!!!! stop with all this "i need a guy who loves to dance and see the opera and go to weddings with me" THAT IS NOT PRACTICAL IF YOU WANT A HETEROSEXUAL MALE... if a guy wants to watch sports or play a video game, or scratch his nuts.. LET HIM BE A GUY!!!! stop trying to turn me into your harmless male girlfriend pet!!!!!! girls want ricky martin.. WELL GUESS WHAT!? RICKY MARTIN IS GAY!!!!! if you want a guy who dances, go to a gay club and dance all night with a butt-pirate if you want a real guy with a beard and grapefruit sized testicles then call the pool boy SO.. in conclusion THIS IS WHY I MAKE IT A POINT TO TELL GIRLS WHO AND WHAT I AM UPFRONT i sternly say i am a Christian.. i sternly say don't ever expect me to dance i will live up to what i deem proper to live up to and not what u want me to be.. if you don't like me FINE HAVE A GOOD LIFE
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teh pool boy
5/16/2011 05:02:38 pm
thanks bill yen.. i appreciate ur comment and your understanding.. i kno u would never act like the girls described in this blog!!!
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Elizabeth
5/18/2011 06:35:14 pm
I laughed all throw this because i could just picture you saying it!!
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Elizabeth
5/18/2011 06:37:14 pm
*through [excuse my spelling errors]
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teh pool boy
5/19/2011 01:24:49 am
yeah elizabeth i agreez..
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