one thing i have to talk about is this whole phenomenon where a decent looking female is "best friends" with an ugly girl and they hang out ALL THE TIME
ok here's what i have to say about this:
u need to learn how to do some things on your own..
being with a friend all the time makes u look like a lesbian, or like u are very immature, or perhaps u are using the other person as a crutch or ur hiding behind that other person
if i can't have a conversation with u without ur friend being around then to me u are hiding.. yes i see u and i'm talking to you, but u are hiding
females like to have a "best friend" who is far less attractive than they are
everyone sees through it
a woman can be very attractive yet still be insecure.. this is one of those times
when u see a girl u want to talk to but she's always with her friend who looks like human-vomit.. u can be sure that the pretty girl is insecure
the pretty girl always gets hit on and her friend never does.. the pretty friend is constantly.. i mean DAILY getting ego boosts and her ugly friend is a mere witness to it
think about it.. why is the ugly friend always angry?
guys u know EXACTLY what i'm talking about.. the ugly one always has the nasty attitude
its because she is always being shat on and everyone sees this BUT her.. the pretty one secretly gets a kick out of being "the desired one" between the two.. and she wouldn't say it outloud, but she constantly shits on her friend repeatedly in very subtle ways
the pretty one is always talking about the guys who are interested in her.. the guys who meet the pretty one always overlook the ugly one.. it becomes a vicious cycle.. the ugly one develops a sort of resentment and she doesn't know where to aim it and so she just has a bad attitude towards most people
what SHOULD happen is the ugly one should find a REAL friend or fly solo but women seem to have this thing where they'd rather have phony friends than none at all
if u don't believe me about this phenomenon.. think about this.. why when u talk to the pretty girl is it that her ugly friend is always butting in and trying to discredit you as a man to her friend?
because she is tired of being overlooked and also does not want u to score a date with the pretty one because that would mean another lonely night for ugly, where she does nothing but wait for pretty to come home with a great story about how great her night was and how desired she was by this man
if a guy gets pretty, then ugly is left without her "friend," no guys, and no prospects for guys or friends because of her attitude.. in other words.. she has nothing without this pretty girl and the pretty girl knows this and feeds on it
i dated a girl once and she told me straight up one day:
"i'm only friends with girls who are unattractive, that's the only reason i go out with kim"
at first i shrugged it off like it was a joke, but she kept saying over and over "i'm serious.. seriously.. i'm so serious"
then later i thought about what she said and added it up in my head:
- one of her friends looks like a damn simpsons character
- one isn't slow but talks like a slow person
- one is in a wheelchair
this is why girls are so mean to eachother because the relationships are toxic to begin with
like when something good happens to ur friend u should be genuinely happy right?
but a lot of times when something good happens to a female, her friend is jealous.. why?
because that upsets the balance in the friendship.. u are her friend to make her feel better about herself
so once u break out of being broke, being fat, being undesirable by men, being unstable, etc. then the pretty girl who u thought was ur best friend is now mad at you and u don't know why
ur upsetting the flow, ur getting out of pocket
YOU WERE BEING USED FROM THE GET-GO
one girl i knew.. over time i developed a way to get her to laugh no matter what
u know what i had to do that would get her to be in a good mood and laugh everytime?
MAKE FUN OF HER BEST FRIEND
sad but true
if comedy central would've roasted her best friend she would've tivo'd that ish and watched it everyday after work
so that's what it is u guys
i get irritated at this thing where chicks are so close.. its annoying to us men because u girls act unapproachable when ur with ur friends
so even if two girls look the same, it is still annoying when they can't be alone or apart from one another
do u want to date a man or do u want to date ur no-man-having-girlfriends ??
if a guy wants you he wants YOU not u and ur whole family, or u and ur whole clique of friends, or you and ur best friend who looks like a cross-eyed duck
STOP WITH THE BS
if a guy asks u on a date
DONT ASK HIM LATER IF YOUR BEST FRIEND TAMMY CAN TAG ALONG CUZ SHE HAS NOTHING TO DO
NO SHE CANNOT COME OUT WITH US YOU IDIOT!!!!!
so my point is.. girls are too close to other girls sometimes and when girls are like this they should be left alone because it is a sign of immaturity
a lot of times when girls are close, its because one of them is receiving a constant ego boost due to the other one being a walking miserable male repellant
so either way
THIS ISH NEEDS TO STOP