how to be cool Posted by poolboyjames on November 23, 2010 at 9:14 PM comments (0)
how to be cool: by james smedley. 1. look good (even if u don't have the money for the shirt, buy it anyway) 2. be superficial 3. be a crowd follower (popular opinion is always right) 4. toss away the concepts of wisdom and foresight.. do dumb things in the name of fun and make youth a reason for foolish behavior 5. well-placed curse words reaffirm your coolness 6. sporadically do these things: scream like its spring break, throw up devil horns, say things are "badass" 7. be a fake christian or a real atheist 8. take pictures of empty alcohol bottles you've collected and post them to facebook or myspace 9. whenever prompted to describe yourself, be sure to depict yourself as a "free spirit" and/or "spontaneous" (sidenote: for these statements to be effective, they should be supplemented with something very specific such as: "i like to have fun" to further solidify your cool status) 10. get tattoos (why? well why not? don't most cool people have them?)
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questions Posted by poolboyjames on November 22, 2010 at 8:10 AM comments (0)i look at soulja boy on youtube sometimes because i like seeing the progression of his career
he is probably the only artist who video documents everything about his career on youtube i saw a video of his today from 2007 in it he had just finished signing his record deal and showed hisnew car he bought the manager said he got $200,000 and soulja got $400,000 it was pretty crazy.. like a dream come true right on youtube soulja addressed the naysayers and gave them the f-u treatment lolz this kinda made me think a bit.. like wow it was such a monumental achievement that u can't argue with i wondered to myself if a girl turned me down, but then i had a monumental success like soulja boy- would she change her mind about me? or would she stick to her guns and continue saying i'm "too nice" or whatever other thing girls hold against me ? not only that, but say if she did accept me because of my newfound fortune.. then would she reject me later? or would the good fortune be enough to keep her around? looking back at life i think for men its wise to be with the girl who liked u in ur teen years and ish because in my 20s it seems like all the women have ulterior motives if ur not successful then ur a bum not even worthy of attention if ur successful then ur worthy of everything women have to offer with no commitment but in ur teen years when a girl likes u it seems more genuine.. she likes YOU and its not so much tainted by other factors but anyway the questions i asked in red are interesting to me if anyone reads this feel free to leave a comment and let me know ur opinion quote time Posted by poolboyjames on November 21, 2010 at 4:43 PM comments (0)wow i really relate to this line i just read in a book
in the story, this guy was in the room as a girl was crying and it says: "His heart was also tormented; but neither the tears of the poor girl nor the astounding charm of her grief disturbed his hardened soul." did u get that? "the astounding charm of her grief" wow... amazing why is seeing a woman u love cry so great? i don't know but it is u feel so like.. hmm how can i put it.. i don't know but it is beautiful this is something i don't think women understand they actually think the opposite is true they think they should never show their true emotions around their guy and they should always keep it together and some even take it to the extreme and are almost business-like in their relationships but guys like to see a woman's vulnerabilities.. it means a lot and he's not going to say that outloud but what she thinks is weakness is likely counted as beauty to him "the astounding charm of her grief" ... amazing updayt Posted by poolboyjames on November 21, 2010 at 12:02 PM comments (0)i really want to get 2 autobiographies
1. fieldy from korn's "got the life" 2. malice of the clipse's "wretched, pitiful, poor, blind, and naked" ________ i saw "king of kong" yesterday which is a documentary about two people trying to reach the high score on donkey kong it is REALLY good.. go peep that out on youtube if u haven't seen it part of the movie, (if you look deep enough into it) is about the inner psyche of males, what we strive for and the obstacles we face ________ i really wish i had someone to talk to about life i don't have anyone in my life to talk to and be like "i feel like this" or "my day was like this" its like...... its like how the bible says something like "as iron sharpens iron, so a man sharpens another" meaning, when u have someone to talk to, u are empowered to learn from that person and make better decisions and stuff not having anyone really irks me.. i mean its like i can't even get someone to chill with me for one night.. like the other day i was supposed to go out with a girl but when the day came i texted her and she didn't text me back we were supposed to do something, but i don't get a "not tonight" or a "i'm at work" or anything don't get me wrong, i don't care about her enough to be really hurt.. but the point is... this sort of indifference- when experienced all the time begins to wear u down.. no one seems to understand what its like being ignored and overlooked constantly as if u mean nothing at all like its one thing to turn me down.. but to act as if we never spoke in the first place in my opinion is far worse and far more demoralizing ________ i appreciated all the positive feedback i got on my recent song "guilty" everyone who knows me really said some great things about the song and i appreciated all of it i actually have to thank specifically my friends john willis and armonty houston for telling me to get back to recording.. they both said i have talent and so i dusted off the mic.. that led to guilty, which led to more positive feedback and support ________ i've been watching a lot of i-carly lately ish is so funny its ridiculous gibby is human crack. ________ one thing i find to be funny is like.. the nature of male/female relationships.. the bible wants people to keep sex for marriage and not just give it to anyone but people just give it to anyone and as a result theres a lot of bastard kids and a lot of poverty where it could have been avoided like let me try to explain a picture of this say u have a girl who is pretty and attractive.. guys naturally want to have sex with her if she says yes and gets pregnant then she GETS PREGNANT u feel what i'm sayin? meaning she was sexy but give it a few months and she is fat, sweaty, gross looking, gassy, basically the opposite of everything she was when u first saw her thus ur attraction to her goes downhill thus ur interest in her goes downhill thus u are less likely to want to be a staple in her or the child's life because u want to go and be with a girl who is actually pretty and ish however if u loved her enough to marry her, then when she gets pregnant, becomes fat, has stupid cravings, is overly emotional, has gas, or she is vomiting in the morning, or whatever else.. YOU STILL LOVE HER THE SAME because your love was intrinsic to begin with God's way is a safeguard and people try to explain away their indiscretions all day but people are still getting unwanted pregnancies everyday and they're still getting std's everyday.. people are still getting abortions and still living with one parent in the house instead of two soo i don't kno its just funny that when ur in the club looking for the prettiest girl there, u find her and she's at her best.. but if u get her pregnant, give it a few months and u will be seeing her at her very worst.. are u patient enough to stick it through with her? if u don't love her intrinsically then probably not ______ i like this show .. its called "the real winning edge" its about people achieving things through hard work and faith in Christ ______ not much else to say right now stay fly peaCe appreciative Posted by poolboyjames on November 21, 2010 at 8:55 PM comments (0)ok one thing i want to point out
youtube is 9,075 times better now that it shows the most liked comments at the top for a while there i was getting really sick of negative comments always being shown.. like it was getting to where it was really bringing me down, if u look back in my blogs u will see i talked about it once or twice like people were just saying so much mean stuff, and they still do, but now that the most liked comments are at the top.. generally the comments u read without thinking are positive or funny its good not to have to be exposed to blatant negativity everytime u just want to take a look at a video of some sort this small adjustment youtube has made has really been great like for example i like some of soulja boy's music but he has so many hateful comments its RIDICULOUS.. and seeing him dissed all the time is like... let me put it like this.. words carry a certain energy and weight with them.. its kinda intangible but still felt, like a certain smell or something negativity is very final also.. it doesn't promote life of any sort.. like here's a quick example the implications of a simple phrase like "ur stupid" are as follows: u shouldn't try to succeed cuz due to your limited cognitive ability you are doomed to failure.. so just sit there and do nothing and die see what i'm saying? negativity does nothing but attempt to stunt growth, hurt people, add pain, destroy dreams, etc etc its very final and very "yuck" for lack of a better term so thanks youtube for making a that little change p-s-a Posted by poolboyjames on November 16, 2010 at 12:14 AM comments (0)whats up
one thing i want to talk about right now the bible says we should make excuses for people and hold ourselves accountable for our conduct/problems being in the flesh we naturally want to do the opposite.. hold other people accountable for their conduct/problems and make excuses for no one but ourselves i want whoever is reading this to just remember to try and make excuses for other people and have mercy on them, be patient with them, see the good in them and tell them about it, and FORGIVE them i walk around and i see so many big problems that grew from the tiny seeds of unforgiveness don't get me wrong i'm not saying its easy, i'm just saying try to just flip that switch in ur head and forgive other people when they upset u remember they aren't perfect and every new day when u see someone, try to look at them as if they haven't done you any wrong i'm not saying forget what they did and set urself up to get pwned.. i'm sayin just try to reassure urself that what happened is over and no one's perfect and try to just move on i don't know if u guys can tell on my blog but i can sometimes be sensitive.. like for example if i like a girl a lot and she ignores me.. things like that really bother me.. they stay with me and i struggle to try and process what i perceive as my own worthlessness but even tho i get ignored, offended, hurt, rejected, dissed, talked down to, or whatever the case may be.. i always hope to just forgive people, make excuses for them, and see them new everyday the stuff we get upset about on a daily basis is really petty when u look at the grand scheme of life try to develop an almost cartoonish forgiveness and i think u will be better for it like sometimes when someone makes me mad i want to just get ignorant right back with them.. but i find a lot of times its better to just tell myself "they're mad cuz they have hemorrhoids" and laugh it off.. try to let their negative conduct be their problem and their shame and not something u have to address and correct try to give it to God sometimes u know what i'm sayin the Bible says we're not supposed to go to sleep with our anger.. we're supposed to solve it or pray for strength or whatever but not harbor that pain/unforgiveness hopefully something in here helps someone get over an offense of some sort this has been a public service announcement let's go!! Posted by poolboyjames on November 16, 2010 at 12:00 AM comments (0) sonic
"my 08 self" Posted by poolboyjames on November 14, 2010 at 10:08 PM comments (3)i've never told anyone this but here's something that goes on in my head from time to time... i compare myself to myself
in 2008 i had a lot of problems mainly i flunked out of college for the second time that year i still lived with my parents i still had no job or girlfriend i was still in debt $3000 from my car i got in late 2007 but during the summer of that year i came to the resolve that i was going to be as strong as possible in every given circumstance i decided every time a negative thought came, i was going to fight it.. like not just ignore it but seriously fight it and push through everything i was going through.. no lethargic moping.. no dragging of my feet.. just.. "lets keep pushing and stay positive at every moment" i was faced with a lot of adversity, both outer and inner but i stayed rock solid positive and made the right decisions about everything despite a myriad of problems i was so disciplined it was insane my food portions got cut my exercise went up my work ethic (looking for employment went up) my relationships remained in tact (i didn't neglect my friends) i used patience in dealing with negative comments about me and my situations the list goes on that august a beautiful girl came into my life and showed me a lot of love and support in the time we dated i eventually ended up with the highest paying and best job i ever had in september of that year i was getting nice clothes and getting respect from people who had been making fun of me i began building my studio that people never thought would be built things began to change for me this time in my life is now remembered as one of the best times of my life what i learned from that was that true happiness comes from hard work and discipline don't get me wrong, it wasn't easy.. but it paid off it wasn't easy because sometimes i remember i wanted to go to sleep instead of work on my resume but i worked on it anyway.. sometimes i wanted to say something mean to people who thought i was a "bum".. but i chose patience and to not get upset at them.. sometimes it was really hot outside and i didn't want to work out but i went out there and did it anyway etc. etc. this time of extreme discipline remains a source of strength for me even to this day i had no reason to smile or be happy or to think i could accomplish anything but i just grew a backbone and said, hey.. i'm going to do right, live right, be positive and happy and pro-active and it was great these days i always compare me to "my 08 self" i haven't been living up to the 08 james much recently but i hope i can get back to that it was amazing seeing so many things change for me from bad to good during that year with God's help i can do it again! lets go!! quick point Posted by poolboyjames on November 14, 2010 at 6:41 PM comments (0)one thing i want to talk about is how i am perceived as a Christian or "nice guy"
just because i am a "good person" doesn't mean i don't want to be bad sometimes, or that i'm naive that's pretty much all i want to say.. i'm not naive, if anything i'm more aware of things in life than "bad people" or "sinners" i'm not going to do a big essay on this i just want to point this out i'm not naive about things i know what is going on around me, and on top of that i was born in the flesh just like everyone else to say i'm naive because i try to live right would be.. well.. naive no homo Posted by poolboyjames on November 21, 2010 at 3:14 PM comments (0)ok no homo but to keep the variety of my website i will now show u guys who i think the most handsome men in entertainment are
again NO HOMO.. just my personal opinion of what is handsome i look up to these guys fashion and looks-wise in certain ways and i'll talk a little about why and i'd do one of these for women too but honestly i can't because i don't think any women in entertainment are good looking people.. why? well because i like voluptuous women and there are no voluptuous women in entertainment because they're all too busy trying to be skinny and have six-pack abs women who are skinny are just not attractive to me.. go down the list, shakira, beyonce.. whoever it is.. they aren't cute to me so i can't do one for women in entertainment (more on this at the bottom) first is robert ri'chard from the show "one on one" and the movie "house of wax" he has a good build.. good skin tone.. unique hair.. and he dresses well.. i want to have a build like that one day next is mike skinner aka the streets he has embodied lots of diff looks.. he has a good look but i think its a bit understated.. u almost don't notice that he is a handsome guy at all but every once in a while he'll wear something cool or get inshape and it hits u.. its a sort of boyish good looks thing.. if u see his videos look at his eyes.. he looks honest if that makes any sense next is the guy from gym class heroes this dude is MADD tall.. i met him once so i know how tall he is.. the cool thing about him is he can wear his hair like a black guy or like a white guy or right in the middle he looks cool in all his outfits and he has a great fashion sense.. he actually looks like a younger version of my grand-dad now that i think about it (BTW u can find better pics than what i have, i just grabbed these pics off the net real fast) now let me talk about a few more women in entertainment and why they aren't cute nicki minaj - too ignorant.. calls herself a "cunt" on her own song.. i thought she was cute at first but nevermind.. i've lost all attraction to her over time with her dumb videos and statements she makes mariah carey - no longer really attracted to her because she's married.. everytime i see her i think of nick cannon and ish jennifer hudson - just plain ugly fantasia barrino - just plain ugly christina aguilera - decent, nothing more like i said earlier.. the list goes on with women so i can't do one on them if i did one on women it would have to be like women from aplus size porn magazine or something.. which i'm obviously not going to do |
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