one thing that irks me is how many people have this belief of "i can say anything i want to u but u don't ever have the right to put your hands on me"
that is just ridiculous i don't care if you are a man, a woman, a child, or a senior citizen.. you can not say and/or do anything you want to someone and never expect them to escalate the matter to physical violence just a very quick and simple example say, i see you everyday at school and everyday u say i'm fat in front of everyone think about it.. that is mental violence, the only difference is police probably won't put cuffs on you for that i could tell the teacher but imagine the teacher saying "i can only punish someone for something i see, so since i haven't seen them call u a name then i can't do anything" how do i get you to stop calling me names then? maybe i'm a low-key person but u thrive on attention so i don't want to argue with you in front of everyone so what am i supposed to do? i'm going to punch you directly in your face and stand over you don't get me wrong i am not promoting violence i just feel like if someone deserves to get hit, then they just deserve to get hit i feel like patience should always be used and considered before anything however if someone is just constantly doing something then they may deserve to get hit and that is not a bad thing but the bottom line of this blog is this at work i overheard an older woman's conversation and she said "i can say anything i want to u and u just have to take it, i can say or do anything i want but u better not ever touch me" i totally disagree the truth is, as people we know what buttons we should avoid.. we know what would hurt another person, and if you decide to go and press someone's red buttons repeatedly, that is like saying "please punch me in the face" some people may not escalate anything ever but my advice to everyone is if u don't want to see something escalated, then don't press anyone's buttons! the main thing that made me bring this up tonight was perez hilton has been talking real bad TO AND ABOUT the black eyed peas he is now claiming he got punched in the face by their manager WHY ACT SO SURPRISED!? seriously.. its like if u jump out of a window u will fall, if you put ur hand on the hot oven u will be burnt, if you go in the rain u will get wet if you are being rude, or hurtful toward someone then just like clockwork, expect something hurtful to come your way i just feel like violence sometimes gets a bad rap.. like i said i'm not promoting violence, i'm just saying in some circumstances people ask for it and/or deserve it and they just need to charge it to the game.. u do something stupid then something stupid is gonna happen to u.. don't complain just stop acting like a buffoon
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JaimsThese are my blogs from 2009. I started them in May of that year when I couldn't work on music but still needed a way to express myself. Archives
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