another opinion Posted by poolboyjames on August 28, 2009 at 12:38 PM comments (0)i just thought about something else that happened on the real world
ayiia was saying her and her boyfriend have "an open relationship" she was saying that her and her boyfriend have an "understanding" because she needs love and attention my question is.. why even be in a relationship? if u need love and attention so much that u can't control yourself when ur away from your partner.. then why even keep a partner? why not just be with someone new all the time? if you've already established that you can't or won't control yourself, then why not just go all out with it? and as for her boyfriend... why would u be in a "relationship" with someone who can't or won't control theirself? someone who, instead of taking responsibility for their actions, just says "you weren't there and i needed love and attention" basically blaming YOU for THEIR indiscretions! the main thing to me is basically like... if a person blames people and situations for their indiscretions, then they are not ready to be in a relationship in other words if a person is unwilling to take responsibility for their own actions.. then don't be with them don't date them, don't get emotionally attached, just keep them at arm's length what's worse? being alone and living a normal life? or being in love with someone you can't trust? i'd choose to live the normal life i'm sure some would choose being in love with someone they can't trust, but those people are desperate, or have no standards, or low self esteem, or they are running from something.. or any combination of those
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JaimsThese are my blogs from 2009. I started them in May of that year when I couldn't work on music but still needed a way to express myself. Archives
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